First, how is the child's personality caused? Before the child is three years old, it is actually the time when the child is most seriously affected by the surrounding environment. Many parents think that their children can't remember things before they are three years old, so they don't care much about a personality development before they are three years old. I even think that it is unnecessary for a child to influence her character before going to school. Instead, I indulge my children and think everything they do is funny. But in fact, before the age of three, it is a very good training period for children. At this time, children have strong imitation ability. When he does something wrong, his parents don't stop him, but tell it as a joke, then he will feel that it is correct and it will be difficult to change his cognition at this time in the future. This is that children have not received the correct education since childhood.
Second, how to discover the advantages of children. First of all, we should praise children more. China's tradition is repressive education, but in fact this kind of repressive education will greatly hurt children's self-confidence. Praise and praise will make a child have more confidence in himself. At the same time, we should also create a good living environment for our children. This living environment does not mean how good the environment is for children economically, but the environment created by parents, which makes children feel very safe. Finally, what parents need to do is to help their children explore their own advantages. Sometimes children don't realize their own advantages, so parents need to make careful observation to find out their hidden advantages. Therefore, parents must spend more time with their children and observe them more. Enlarge children's advantages and help them build deeper confidence.
Third, how to carry out targeted personality education.
Children are like a blank sheet of paper when they are young. Sometimes, children will learn from their parents, who are their best teachers. In fact, everyone has heard this sentence. This is not a figurative sentence, but it is true. In today's society, there will always be a lot of news about children's education, and most of these children are in a family environment that lacks parental care or doting. Excessive lack of parents' love or excessive doting will lead to the distortion of children's personality. Parents should instill some correct outlook on life in their children from an early age. It is the responsibility of parents to tell their children clearly what is right, what is wrong and what they can and can't do, instead of waiting for their children to make irreparable mistakes before they begin to regret it.