There are many arguments and controversies about how to teach a child well in Saint Amethyst. The flag is red, so it is called red flag. The five-star red flag is our national flag. ""Do you think this word' person' looks like people's separated legs? Zhao Jilai, do you think your calves look alike? "... Zhao Dawei thinks that it is too early to educate children, and that a person's good study is basically determined by intellectual factors, and human intelligence is innate. Qian Xiaoyu doesn't think so. She retorted that all Zhao Dawei's ideas came from books. Experts believe that the earlier children receive education, the higher their intellectual development. Otherwise, Zhao Jilai will understand, "Do you know the light before bed?" Zhao Dawei's argument is thin and empty, so he naturally can't refute Qian Xiaoyu. Moreover, he has to admit that Qian Xiaoyu's education method is quite effective. When Zhao Ji came for eight months, Qian Xiaoyu asked, "Which is the red flag? Show it to dad. " Qian Xiaoyu deliberately moved the photo of the red flag to the other side. Zhao Jilai turned his head stubbornly and pointed to the picture with the red flag: "Ah-"Qian Xiaoyu turned to Zhao Jilai and asked: "Where is our national flag?" Zhao Jilai turned his head, pointed to the red flag and shook his head, looking very excited. Zhao Dawei was so happy that he took his son, kissed him, held him in his arms, shook him and recited happily: "1 like a pencil, 2 like a duck swimming in the water, 3 listening to songs with his ears, 4 like a red flag floating in the wind, 5 like a scale hook, 6 like a whistle, 7 like a sickle mowing grass, 8. Zhao Dawei can't remember when he was happier than now. Qian Xiaoyu squinted and smiled at them. When Zhao Dawei was one year old, he learned to walk with the help of adults, especially like walking and playing games. When Qian Xiaoyu taught her something, she became very upset, which disappointed Qian Xiaoyu. Zhao Dawei is more philosophical, thinking that children are still young and everything needs to be done slowly. Qian Xiaoyu said disappointedly, "I want to train our son into a genius!" " "Zhao Dawei laughed:" Zhao Jilai is not necessarily a genius! " Having said that, Zhao Dawei thought: Isn't this nonsense? Who is a genius? Genius is a great politician, strategist, scientist, writer and philosopher who goes down in history. Yes, I just heard that people in our small county have seen it for generations. Seeing that Qian Xiaoyu didn't answer, Zhao Dawei thought that she was also a smart person, so she stopped mentioning this topic. Her son seems to be a genius. This is an extremely distant but not desperate dream. Knowing that I can't do it, I still have a glimmer of hope in my heart and can't bear to find her. It's also good to let her hang in front of our eyes before hope is dashed. Qian Xiaoyu is unwilling, otherwise, she would not be Qian Xiaoyu. The provincial people's broadcasting station has a special line for children's education at 8: 00 every Saturday night. Listeners can ask questions through the hotline and experts will answer them on the spot. Since having children, Qian Xiaoyu has become a loyal listener of this program. Qian Xiaoyu waited for two weeks to get through the hotline and confided her worries to the experts, hoping that the experts could provide some good suggestions. Experts say: There is no denying that playing is a child's nature. Educating children, especially very young children, must begin with cultivating their interest in learning and entertaining them. If cramming education is carried out at an early age, it will cause children's rebellious psychology, which is tantamount to mental trauma and will inevitably lead to paradoxical misunderstanding. We should acknowledge the differences between children of different ages. For example, some parents can't wait to teach their children arithmetic when they are three or four years old. It's too early. He doesn't have the ability to understand numbers yet. This is a physiological difference and cannot be forced. Qian Xiaoyu was relieved and asked: Is genius educated? The expert said with a smile: It should be said that most geniuses are well educated, especially in today's society, but it is undeniable that geniuses are unique and scarce in different fields ... Qian Xiaoyu hung up the phone sadly. Zhao Dawei explained to Qian Xiaoyu that it is against children's nature to let them learn many things, because they are too young. Just like a small car, it is easy to go wrong when it is mounted on a big car. Qian Xiaoyu retorted: "Some children can read more than 2,000 words at the age of three." Zhao Dawei smiled helplessly: "I know, you mean the one in Chengguan Town, right? There are different understandings of this problem. Can she write two thousand words? Do you know the meaning of each word? " Qian Xiaoyu pursed her mouth and kept silent. "The child is not successful. When she was in primary school, she could read 3000, but all other classes were a mess. Self-care ability is extremely poor Do you know how her parents educate their children? Her parents are both Chinese teachers. Like you since childhood, there are cards with Chinese characters written on them at home. They are even more unique. Chinese characters are pasted on doors, furniture and teacups. You can look at billboards and house numbers when you go out. When you see the poster, you can still read books and newspapers. Think about it, Xiaoyu, if a child is full of words, he will be very lucky not to be a psychopath. " Zhao Dawei said this, stare big eyes, open your mouth, made an exaggerated action. Qian Xiaoyu poof bursts into laughter. Zhao Dawei also has a sense of crisis in her heart. She must educate her children well. The girl mentioned above caught his special attention. He learned from the side that the child's education method was a failure. Now her parents also admit this. "Xiaoyu, we should seriously discuss the education of children and make a general plan." "Do you have this idea?" Qian Xiaoyu likes to talk hard in her mind. "I think we should set a practical goal first, that is, what kind of person we want to train our children." "This is a waste of time! You don't have to tell me. Be a big official! Make big money! Learn a lot! " Qian Xiaoyu knows this well. Zhao Dawei said, "You will understand slowly." Zhao Dawei decided to talk about this issue in another way, otherwise Qian Xiaoyu would not compromise. Now he is really worried that Qian Xiaoyu will lead the child into a misunderstanding with a stubborn attitude. "Xiaoyu, before she was three years old, she could know three thousand words." "Really!" Qian Xiaoyu's eyes lit up. It's broken! Zhao Dawei thought, Qian Xiaoyu is preconceived, more aggressive, don't want to be better than somebody else's son. "From now on, we only teach children to read books every day, and the games will not let him do it, and other activities will be reduced to the limit. I feel confident to surpass her. " Qian Xiaoyu's face darkened. Zhao Dawei went on to say, "in that case, what will happen to the child? Poor living ability is certain, learning ability is not as good as there, laying a foundation for children from an early age. Besides, it's basically useless to recognize so many Chinese characters. First of all, you can't write. Secondly, 99% of the words don't understand the meaning, and they have to learn from scratch when they go to school. Conversely, what is the level of 3000 words? The level of high school graduates! No more than 10% of government officials in our compound can fully master the sound and meaning of 3000 Chinese characters. This kind of education is to encourage young people and is a very successful example! " "What do you say?" Qian Xiaoyu's tone softened. Zhao Dawei was secretly glad. The girl he just mentioned improvises in many places. Apart from being literate, she is not as incompetent as he says. Zhao Dawei really studied the girl carefully and came to the conclusion that her son's education can't go her way. First of all, she has to admit that she has a certain talent in some aspects, and whether her son has such talent is doubtful in Zhao Dawei's mind, which is impossible after all. If you follow the trend, it must be effective; Even if you are really talented, that kind of education is not desirable. Therefore, Zhao Dawei deliberately belittled her and tried to exaggerate her shortcomings to dispel Qian Xiaoyu's thoughts. "We should educate our children to have a long-term goal and not be eager for quick success. We are not the county magistrate who hastily took office to engage in image projects, flaunt political achievements, and then left. " It is rare for Zhao Dawei to have such an opportunity. He cursed Qian Xiaoyu when he spoke, so he became more and more excited. "Children are ours, all of them are ours. We are only children all our lives, and we can't have any mistakes. Therefore, the stage goal must unconditionally obey the ultimate goal. Take this literacy as an example. It is cruel to let a three-year-old child know two thousand words first! There's no need! A person's learning stage is very long, why not let him develop in an all-round and healthy way? Why not put a long line to catch big fish! " Qian Xiaoyu smiled happily. After listening to Zhao Dawei's sermon, she unloaded a stone from her heart. Qian Xiaoyu frowned.