In life, some parents often complain that they have no time to spend with their children, because they have to work during the day, work overtime from time to time at night, and tell their children to do their homework when they go home. In short, they can't be busy all day.
There are also some parents who are relatively free at ordinary times and can stay with their children all day. No matter what their children do, they always accompany them and give them meticulous companionship.
But in fact, neither of the above two forms of companionship has much effect.
So, how can parents accompany their children effectively, and what are the correct ways to accompany their children? Let's take a look together.
1, the correct way to accompany children: careful company.
Accompanying children should be "intentional" rather than "hard". Pay close attention, listen attentively and help attentively. Only parents can help their children find and solve problems with their heart.
2. The correct way to accompany children: respectful companionship.
Don't attack children, don't blame them blindly, don't sell yourself short, even your own children should be given due respect and trust. Real companionship is to be friends with children. We should all keep a low profile, respect each other and tolerate each other.
3. The correct way to accompany your child: be patient.
When communicating with children, parents must pay attention to wording and attitude, explain the truth clearly, and avoid getting angry and labeling their children. We all understand some truth, but children may not, so we should spend more time educating children.
4. The correct way to accompany children: the companionship of a normal heart.
Not all children can get 100. If a child wins the first place, there will be children clapping by the roadside. Scores don't mean everything. Children have many possibilities. We should help children understand themselves correctly and find out the most suitable way for their growth.
5. The correct way to accompany children: the companionship of growing up together.
Dong Qing once said: What kind of person do you want your children to be? First, what kind of person do you want to be? The process of parents accompanying their children is the process of setting an example for their children. Lead by example, lead by example is our best education for children.
How to effectively accompany children? Parents are not only parents, but also friends and mentors on their children's life path. The companionship of parents is the most important part of children's spiritual world and spiritual world. Therefore, no matter how busy they are at ordinary times, parents should take time out to spend more time with their children, so that their children can grow up happily and healthily in love and companionship.