1, China education attaches importance to giving children material enjoyment, but lacks parent-child interaction. China people really don't feel bad about spending money on their children. As soon as the holiday is over, the children go to cram school and do a few things from morning till night. All kinds of spare flowers and snacks are not a problem, and you can really eat enough with clothes. Although many people don't go to extremes, they are basically given material enjoyment beyond their ability. However, when giving children material enjoyment, parents rarely communicate with their children, even the simplest talk.

2. Chinese education pays the most attention to the result, not the process, whether it is school education or family education. Teachers shout every day, pay attention to the process, as long as they work hard, but this is not the case. No matter what the reason, they will always be loved. For whatever reason, if you come last in the exam, you will always be rejected. No matter how hard you try, the result is the same. So is family education. If you work hard, no matter what the result, you will be recognized, but this is not the case. Chinese-style education is known as "striving for the upper reaches" and "disappointing" in obscurity. Whether it is family education, school education, social education, etc. It only pays attention to the result, not the process. After all, there are so many people in China that no one wants to know what other people's processes are like.

3. Education in China pays the most attention to the wishes of decision makers. At home, parents' opinions are always right, and opposition seems never right; At school, the teacher's opinion is always right. Whether you agree or disagree, pretend to be absolutely in favor, or the consequences will be ugly. As a result, the students themselves are farmers. As long as students think it is right, it must be right. Whether it is true or true, he will do it anyway. No matter how to persuade, it is meaningless. Nowadays, children are becoming more and more opinionated, just to show that they are right.