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First of all, parents need to be aware of their doting behavior and admit the existence of the problem. They should be aware of the possible negative effects of doting on children's development and growth, such as lack of self-confidence, strong dependence and lack of autonomy. Only when we are aware of the problem can we take action to correct it.
Make clear rules
Parents need to set clear rules and boundaries to let their children know what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. These rules should cover children's daily life, study and social interaction. Parents should adhere to the implementation of the rules, give appropriate rewards and punishments, and help children establish self-discipline and sense of responsibility.
3. Cultivate independent ability
Parents need to cultivate their children's independent ability and let them learn to deal with problems and solve difficulties by themselves. This can be achieved by gradually increasing children's responsibilities and autonomy. For example, parents can let their children do some daily work by themselves, such as cleaning the room, washing clothes or cooking. Parents can also encourage their children to participate in social activities and teamwork, and cultivate their social skills and independent thinking ability.
Seek professional help
If parents find it difficult to correct their doting behavior, they can seek professional help. Professional psychological counselors or family education experts can help parents understand the causes and effects of love addiction and provide targeted advice and guidance. They can help parents adjust their education methods and establish a healthy parent-child relationship through communication and counseling with their parents.
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Spoiling children is a bad way of family education. Parents can correct their doting behavior by being aware of the problem, making clear rules, cultivating independent ability and seeking professional help. Recognizing the problem is the first step to correct it. Parents need to set clear rules and boundaries and stick to them.
It is very important to cultivate independent ability. Parents should encourage their children to solve problems and take responsibility. If it is difficult for parents to correct their doting behavior, they can seek professional help and get expert guidance and support. Through these efforts, parents can help their children to establish a healthy growth environment and positive personality development.