1. Different
Japanese children are very independent since childhood. On the streets of Japan, primary and secondary school students can often be seen wearing small yellow hats and carrying small schoolbags in twos and threes. Japanese primary and secondary school students basically have no parents' cars to pick them up from school, and it is not easy for some people to drive their children to school in luxury cars. They either take the school bus by themselves or invite friends to study in groups. On campus, all lunches are eaten by students themselves in the canteen. Every day, two students on duty carry small boxes of clothes and meals back to the team with wooden sticks, and then the students on duty distribute them to everyone. After dinner, everyone should clean the kitchen utensils by themselves, and the students on duty will put the kitchen utensils back in a specific area. The Japanese attach great importance to shaping children's consciousness. When parents and children walk together, it is often that adults are poor and children are carrying food baskets. The first lesson in Japanese primary and secondary schools is to teach children to be alone, not to bring inconvenience to others, and try not to ask adults for help.
Looking back at our children's parents, there are countless people who drive their children in luxury cars. As soon as school is over, the most congested place on the street is usually a long line of cars parked by parents in the middle of the road after school. The most common saying in Chinese education is: "Nothing needs to be done except study and training". How many parents stand up and cook at four or five in order to let their children sleep more? When children get up at six o'clock, parents put a soft toothbrush with whitening toothpaste in their lips, hoping that they can't feed. Many children are still unable to study in middle schools and ordinary high schools after school. Parents will always serve behind their children's ass for several years of study. "Everything has parents", such old hen soup nourishes many young people who have to open their mouths.
polite
All social development in Japan attaches great importance to etiquette knowledge. Adults attach great importance to their qualifications at work, while junior students attach great importance to their seniors. As long as it belongs to the later enterprise, even if it is old, it is still not easy to get through this hurdle by calling the employees who came to the enterprise before an old-timer, even if they have outstanding sales performance. Therefore, the Japanese have shaped their children to be polite and polite since childhood. In Japan, you will never see children crossing the street when the lights of the People's Bank of China are off. They will never line up, even if they are impatient, they will be honestly at the end of the line. In Japan, you can often see children crossing the road in long lines. Whether in the past or in the future, groups should look back at the drivers waiting for them and bow their heads to thank them. It is the result of civilized etiquette education.
Be happy
There are basically no textbooks in Japanese kindergartens, and only one children's picture book is issued every academic year. Children can participate in many theme activities on campus, and they can also participate in different club activities according to their hobbies. Japanese people attach great importance to children's mental health and don't want children to have heavy schoolwork at an early age. Even in primary and secondary schools, the course content is not in a hurry. Colleges and universities will continue to give children a variety of outdoor courses. Swimming, tennis, badminton, taekwondo, whatever you want to learn. They also have little homework, and they spend most of their time playing for their children after returning home. On Sundays, Japanese families usually go to play together. It can be a short trip, a field trip to a friend's house in the country, or a picnic in the park.
Our children must be envious of this. Over the years, the academic pressure of China students has been increasing. There is a lot of work in colleges and universities, so parents should give their children a lot of make-up classes. Even learning to swim and sing, which was originally very pleasant, needs to be enrolled in remedial classes. Children in our country are taken good care of. But happiness is still very low. The expectations of the family are placed on the children, and it seems that grinding people is wrong.
firm and indomitable
I firmly believe that many people have heard that Japanese children wear shorts in winter. This is an objective fact. Japanese themselves don't wear thick clothes in winter. For children, they firmly believe that children should face life with a smile in the cold and hone their iron perseverance. It is worth mentioning that there are many frustrating courses in Japanese universities, such as outdoor training for freshmen. After the child fell into the mud, he shouted to stand up and continue walking, and other students would also give him oil.
This is actually unshakable in my China culture. However, in contemporary times, the complicated pressure of study makes parents feel sorry for their children, knowing that they should be given some frustration education, or I am finally unwilling. Parents are cruel, but elders disagree.
5. pay attention. Japanese children should pay attention to people who are different from themselves. If there are obese, disabled or other abnormal children in colleges and universities, no one will look askance, let alone laugh at them. Even if there are some strange ideas and preferences, they are allowed. Therefore, Japanese culture and art are very diverse. Everyone has the opportunity to develop the trend in the direction they like. Mom and dad just expect them to be happy.
We in China are proud and like to judge people. This has caused many people to be afraid of being themselves, at least in front of their parents. Many people are driven by the plain and popular concept of social development, and the herd effect makes children stereotype. However, in recent years, many young parents born in 1980s and 1990s have paid more and more attention to the diversification of children's education and their own choices.
On the one hand, the aspect ratio of Japanese social development is self-made, and everyone abides by discipline and leads a regular life. On the other hand, they attach great importance to everyone's characteristics. Besides the characteristics of culture and education, they also have some advantages. For example, if you do something, you like to do it well and you are strict with the key points. They advocate simplicity and are not interested in noise. The culture and art of China and Japan are of the same origin, but they are quite different. For thousands of years, we in China have learned a lot about culture and education. However, in areas where others do well, we should learn and train with an open mind.