Children gradually mature in adolescence, and the differences between men and women are becoming increasingly obvious, and they have a strong curiosity about the opposite sex. As parents, we must shoulder the responsibility of education and teach them correct adolescent knowledge. Correct guidance and education are indispensable for every parent.

Equality and respect

What we need to treat adolescent children is more understanding and patience, not blame and abuse. The key to establishing a good relationship with children lies in equality and respect. Let's stand with our children and face this special period together.

Communication is the key

Communication is the key to solve the problem of adolescence. However, many children choose to avoid communicating with their parents at this stage. In order to better understand children, we need to understand their psychology first. This may require us to seek the help of third parties, such as children's friends, in order to better understand their real thoughts.

Respect children's privacy

Eavesdropping on a child's phone, peeking at a child's diary or checking a child's message online are all acts that undermine the child's trust in his parents. We should respect children's privacy and sign a "confidentiality contract" with children to clarify what can be shared and what is their personal secrets. This can not only enhance mutual trust, but also make children feel respect and understanding.

Understand the child's rebellion

Adolescent children, like untamed ponies, are full of energy and rebellion. They are no longer satisfied with their parents' discipline and begin to communicate with their parents in a unique way. Faced with such children, many parents may be tempted to do it. But please remember that this will not only not solve the problem, but will hurt the child's self-esteem and trigger more intense resistance and rebellion.