First, parents beating children will alienate the relationship between children and parents.
You know, parents are the closest people to their children. Children will be uncomfortable after being beaten by their parents. Children who are beaten by their parents will have fear and rebellion in their hearts, be dissatisfied with their parents, and even stay away from their parents. I remember one time, my child was procrastinating: he shouldn't take a bath, he shouldn't do his homework, and he shouldn't prepare his school tools for the next day. Is that he didn't move much when he dug with a shovel. As a result, he was scolded by me, and his mother hit him with a hanger. In the evening, he offered to sleep with grandma instead of us. He told his grandmother that he didn't want to sleep with his parents because he was beaten during the day, scared and bored.
So, times have changed now. Whether you are lying or disobedient, it is easy to alienate the relationship between children and their parents by educating them by beating them.
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Second, parents beating their children will hurt their bodies and minds.
After all, children are still children, their physical functions are not fully developed, and their minds are still in a fragile state and vulnerable to injury. I remember a video that was exposed online at the end of 20021. A parent slapped his child directly from the back of the head because he didn't drink the drinks given by his parents, and it was still in public. From the crying expression and frightened eyes of the child in the video, we can see how much pain the child suffered and how powerful the implosion was.
Therefore, if parents attack their children for lying now, the children will also be hurt physically and mentally.
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Third, parents should take care of their children when they lie, and don't beat and scold them.
Lying is a very bad behavior. Lying neither respects others nor gains their trust. The fable of "Wolf" tells us that lying again and again will not only help us, but also turn trust into doubt. People who often lie will not be believed even if they tell the truth. Once a child gets into the habit of telling lies, no one will listen to what he says. Therefore, parents must tell their children to lie, not fight. What parents should mainly do is to communicate with their children equally, tell them that lying is wrong, and let them come back from the wrong path of lying in time.
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I found that the child lied for the first time like this: I found that his pocket money was less, so I asked him where the money went. He lied about losing it and refused to admit that he spent it. Later, I asked the result through patient inquiry. It turns out that he occasionally takes out his pocket money on weekends 10 yuan goes out to buy Fanta drinks and lollipops, and the inexhaustible money is hidden under the sign at the entrance of the residential building, and he will continue to use it next time. In order to educate him to lie, he finally took the initiative to hand in his pocket money, which was kept by his mother. He applied when needed and got permission to use it.
Generally speaking, parents should discipline their children when they tell lies, not beat them. In the face of children's mistakes, parents are also advised to punish and educate their children in other more civilized and effective ways to create a harmonious and happy family.