# Experience of learning Chinese traditional virtues (selected articles 1)#
-The importance of parents to children's personality development
Childhood is an important period for the development and formation of personality. Parents are children's first teachers and play an important role in children's psychological state. The advantages and disadvantages of family environment and the role of parents as role models play a guiding and basic role in children's future personality development. Children's good personality is an important factor for their healthy growth. If a good and healthy personality can be initially formed during this period, it will benefit a person for life. Nowadays, due to the widespread phenomenon of "only child", most children are "only children" at home. The "clown" at home is not only spoiled by 3000 people, but also becomes more and more selfish and arrogant under the care of his family. There have been many social problems, such as egoism, aggression and unsociable. But with the development of society, we know that every child should have a positive and healthy personality besides mastering the necessary knowledge and skills. Therefore, in the current preschool education, we should not only respect children's personality development, but also take corresponding measures to actively inspire and guide children. The competition in today's society is becoming more and more fierce. Every parent hopes that their children can stand out in the future social competition. Therefore, many families attach great importance to family education for their children. However, in family education, many parents only pay attention to instilling children's knowledge, and seldom pay attention to the cultivation of children's personal character. As we all know, a person's personality rarely changes after childhood, and it has a far-reaching impact on his life, and family education plays a key role in the formation and development of children's personality. Good educational methods help to form children's positive and healthy life values. A positive and healthy life goal is the guiding light for children's growth and the traction for children's growth. The goal of family education should be to make children grow up healthily and happily. The healthy and happy growth of children needs excellent family education. An educator once said, "The best gift parents can give their children is to help them form a good character." So how can we carry out effective family education for children? First of all, parents should be the closest people to their children, try to be their friends, solve all kinds of emergencies calmly and rationally, choose the way that suits them best, and parents should not be rude to their children. Secondly, we should understand, tolerate and be kind to children to the greatest extent. Finally, we should respect children's feelings, wishes and choices. Only in this way can children like you, trust you, and exchange ideas with you as intimate friends, and your words will naturally be listened to. Only in this way can parents truly understand their children's inner world and know what their children need, like and hate, so as to carry out targeted education and achieve the due family effect. Good educational methods help to cultivate children's cognitive ability to look at things and ideological problems comprehensively.
# Selected Learning Experiences of Chinese Traditional Virtues (Part II) #
As college students, we should understand that carrying forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation will play an important role in social progress. Conducive to improving the interpersonal relationship in the current society; Conducive to improving social atmosphere; Conducive to the cultivation of good character; Conducive to the cultivation of national spirit; Conducive to promoting social progress; It is conducive to improving and establishing people's ideological and moral standards that adapt to our current society, and to building a harmonious society that is United and friendly, kind to others, fair and upright, honest and trustworthy. So it is what everyone needs and what everyone is eager to have. The Chinese nation is a nation with fine traditions. In the five thousand years of development, the Chinese nation has formed a great national spirit of unity, peace-loving, hard-working and brave, and self-improvement with patriotism as the core. This spirit is the spiritual bond to maintain the unity of the Chinese nation and national unity, and it is also an important spiritual motive force to promote the Chinese nation to keep pace with the times, move towards prosperity and civilization progress. In the history of mankind, the reason why Chinese civilization can continue and live endlessly has become an unbroken social civilization; One of the important reasons why the Chinese nation can make continuous progress, strive for self-improvement and stand on its own feet among the nations of the world is that we Chinese nation have a long-standing, consistent and ever-enriching great national spirit, which serves as a cultural bond and spiritual pillar of unity and unity. This national spirit, as well as all kinds of traditional virtues and noble character it contains, was shaped and formed by many Chinese sons and daughters with their own shining thoughts and actions, and has been continuously enriched and developed in the historical evolution. Today's teenagers are the pioneers of the future, but pioneers must first be the inheritors of fine traditions. Without inheritance as the foundation, it is impossible to forge ahead. Therefore, it is very important to strengthen the education of Chinese virtues for teenagers, let students experience feelings, identify with the national spirit, and pay attention to the unity of knowledge and action.
In the long history, Chinese traditional virtues and national spirit have forged our souls and become the spiritual source of the development and growth of the Chinese nation. It has accumulated a long history of moral culture, contains rich human moral essence, embodies the pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty of ideal personality, and shows the great national spirit handed down from generation to generation by the Chinese nation. A country must have its own Chinese soul and a nation must have its own spirit, so as to gather the wisdom of the whole nation and form incomparable spiritual strength and material wealth. The traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, such as patriotism, integrity, hard work, perseverance, reform and innovation, diligence, eagerness to learn, diligence, integrity and respect for teachers, embody the soul of China and the spirit of the Chinese nation. Lenin said: "Patriotism is the deepest feeling for our country that has been consolidated for thousands of years."
# Selected Learning Experiences of Chinese Traditional Virtues (Selected Chapter III) #
Not long ago, I read some patriotic articles in Chinese virtue story. Among them, the historical story "Dayu Harnessing Water" left a deep impression on me.
The main content is this: A long time ago, there was a big flood in the world. Dayu's father cannon was sent to control water. However, due to the unfavorable water control, Dayu inherited his father's career. In the process of water control, Dayu encountered various difficulties, but they were all overcome. Passing the house three times, he didn't go in once. After thirteen years' efforts, Dayu succeeded in harnessing water and the people lived a quiet life again.
Dayu's persistence, giving up his family, caring for everyone, makes us admire and is worth learning! I think: As primary school students, we should learn from Dayu's perseverance. In learning, we have encountered difficulties, so we should not shrink back, but improvise and solve them by consulting our classmates and teachers and searching online. When cultivating hobbies, we should also stick to it, otherwise we will definitely accomplish nothing. Some cadres do a good job in taking care of their families and everyone, while others are ashamed of the title of "public servant". Like at 5? During the 12 earthquake, some cadres were still trying their best to rescue the affected people without knowing the life and death of their families. However, in order to enrich themselves, some local cadres even embezzled relief materials and plundered the property of local people after the disaster. Don't they feel guilty? Don't they blush? I'm so ashamed of them!
I secretly made up my mind that I must take Dayu as an example and carry forward the spirit of perseverance in my future study and life; When you grow up, always remember to put the interests of the motherland and the people in the position and make due contributions to the motherland!
# Selected Learning Experiences of Chinese Traditional Virtues (Part IV Selected) #
Read classics and carry forward traditional culture
I remember Xiao Fuxing once said, "When studying, we can find a clean campsite, place our souls, find a bright and clear night sky, and let our dreams fly freely." This weekend, my mother and I read a book called Chinese virtue story, which left a deep impression on me.
This book makes me gradually move towards a bright and beautiful moral world, and also makes me realize the place and value of morality from interesting stories. This book filled me with curiosity, opened my immature eyes and looked forward to the morality and values in life through a large number of fascinating and rich contents such as fairy tales, poems, fables and fairy tales. China is a country with a long history. It has many traditional virtues, which are the most precious wealth of China people. They are indispensable and must be passed down. I read the story of Ji Wenzi, the prime minister of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period in China's Traditional Virtue and Simplicity. I think Moon Hee, though in a high position, is proud of frugality. He is wearing old clothes that have been washed for a long time; Eat a simple meal; Live in a humble hut; Riding a thin horse and a broken car. He often exhorts his family to say, "Don't talk about ostentation and extravagance, don't be flashy, eat and drink plain tea, as long as the clothes are not dirty or broken." During his career as prime minister for more than 30 years, he maintained a consistent frugal style. You know, it's hard to be thrifty, and it's even harder to be thrifty for 30 years, not to mention being a prime minister.
Thrift is the traditional culture of our country. Throughout the ages, countless historical celebrities have given "frugality" a richer and deeper meaning with their brilliant examples. But now, how many people will know how to be frugal? Now, people have money and can spend it anywhere. Consumption is ok, but please don't waste it. At the dinner table, people dumped the leftovers unscrupulously; On weekdays, clothes with a little stain are thrown away; A faucet that can't be screwed tightly is pitiful and neglected ... People often say: "We should pass on the traditional culture of the Chinese nation from generation to generation, and we should set a good example for the next generation!" On paper, but who can do it in real life? Therefore, I hope that the people of China can take frugality and simplicity as their moral standards and practice them.
Diligence and thrift is one of our traditional cultures. As the gene of culture, it flows in everyone's blood in China, affecting everyone and their descendants in China all the time. Therefore, we must inherit the traditional culture of the Chinese nation and carry forward our profound national culture forever.
# Selected Learning Experiences of Chinese Traditional Virtues (Chapter 5 Selected) #
Chinese traditional virtue has a long history in China, and it has never stopped since ancient times. There were ancients before, and there were newcomers after.
It is the responsibility of our new generation of middle school students to carry forward traditional virtues.
Today, under the leadership of my father, I went to the supermarket and bought ten bags of jiaozi and some fruits to visit my grandmother. When I got home, my grandmother was not at home. My father and I put the fruit on the table and began to help my father wrap jiaozi. Soon, glistening jiaozi surfaced. I know this is the principle of buoyancy in science. When jiaozi is ripe, its volume expands and its buoyancy increases, so it floats. Dad set many bowls of jiaozi. Two bowls were reserved for grandparents, and the rest were given to neighbors. Before long, grandma went home, smelled the fragrance as soon as she entered the door, and knew it was us. After eating in jiaozi, neighbors, grandparents all came to grandma's house to nag us, saying that dad was a dutiful son and I was a dutiful son and granddaughter. We all chatted happily all morning.
I think that promoting virtue is a way to enhance the value of self-life, and it is also a form to shape people's basic literacy. I am filial to the old man, and I have paid only one heart, but I have gained all of the old man. Then I understood that virtue is actually around us. One time to help my classmates get clothes, one time to help my mother wash her feet, one time, one time, all are concrete manifestations of virtue. Respecting parents and the elderly at home, uniting classmates and respecting teachers at school can all reflect whether we have virtue genes.
Virtue is called virtue because it is a truth and an inner beauty.
# Selected Learning Experiences of Chinese Traditional Virtues (Part VI Selected) #
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