Such people are usually invited, mostly middle-aged, with successful careers, or to put it bluntly, they are generally flattering.

The target of your boss or host is him. As for the other guests, they are just foil.

Your boss may let you go, but if you can achieve unexpected results, you will definitely be reused in the future.

You can only qualify if you drink with the guests, but if you drink with the target guests, that's what the boss wants.

So, find such a person first.

Second, take the initiative to drink

On the wine table, two kinds of people are most afraid, one is the one who can't drink, but such people are generally rare; The other, who can't drink, drinks all the time, which is also rare. After all, there are few fools.

When you are at the wine table, people come to persuade you to drink, usually because your sense of existence is too weak, or your performance is unqualified.

Since everyone wants to drink, passive drinking is better than active drinking.

After the boss makes a toast, he drinks directly with the target.

First, if you take the initiative, the other party must drink; Second, you have the initiative. You can say something first. For example, the XX leader has been in poor health for the last two days, but you are here. I must drink this wine, but I can't drink too much, so I propose a toast to you first. This not only gives the leader enough face, but also tells others that I won't drink much after this cup of wine today.

Usually after this, even if the task is completed, there will be a few drinks afterwards.

Third, learn to chat.

Many times, the boss brings people with him, one is to accompany the wine, and the other is to hope to have a topic to talk about. For example, go out for a drink and bring a talking friend. You can talk about everything. People from different parts of the world, astronomy and geography, real-time current affairs, gossip news and short parents can all make the wine table lively.

So at the wine table, you should learn to chat, but you can't talk to these old men about cosmetics, clothes and entertainment circles, so talk about your children! This is definitely a killer. Talk about education, schools and grades. Most of them have children at this age. The younger said milk powder, the older said going to school, and the older said which high school or even university to take the exam. If they are about the same age, then talk about the future.

General leaders are willing to talk like this, followed by chatting with you, and people next to them will not have time to persuade wine.