Proper care
Makarenko once reminded us that love also needs wisdom and prudence. As parents, we need to care for our children rationally and moderately, and let them grow up healthily in caring.
Reasonable expectation
Parents, we should be realistic about children's expectations. Excessive expectations often bring pressure to children and cause resistance. We should rationally adjust our expectations and create a more relaxed and healthy development space for our children.
Children's independence
When children begin to say "no", it is a signal that they are trying to be independent. We need to observe and judge what they can do and then give them a chance to try. At the same time, through games and role-playing, meet children's needs for social activities and cultivate children's social skills.
Understanding and support
When children are disobedient, parents should deal with them calmly. Find the reasons from yourself first, then try to understand the children's thoughts and needs, build trust and understanding through calm communication, and let the children feel the care and support of their parents.
Understanding and patience
When children are emotionally unstable, parents should take a step back temporarily to avoid escalating conflicts. Wait until the child's mood is slightly stable before communicating. Perhaps at this time, children are more likely to accept their parents' suggestions and concerns. Remember, understanding and patience are the key to solving problems.