There is also the last book, "How to say that children will listen?" Just like how to listen to the children first, the score of positive discipline in Douban is as high as 8.8 points.
In Fandeng Reading Club, "Positive Discipline" is the first book with a broadcast volume of more than 30 million, so parents must read this book.
There is a sentence on the cover of this book-how to discipline children effectively without punishment or connivance.
"Punishment" and "connivance" are two methods of disciplining children. Active discipline is to help parents find a middle course that neither punishes nor condones. Active reformatories advocate kindness and firmness, and teach children valuable social skills and life skills.
Then why be kind and firm? Kindness can offset the problems caused by being too firm, and firmness can offset the problems caused by being too kind.
Raising children is a part of our life, and it is also solving one problem after another. "Positive discipline" is to teach everyone to solve the parenting problems encountered in life. This theory is also guiding us to pay attention to the solution of the problem, not the consequences.
Like all parenting books, this book also emphasizes that if parents want to change their children's usual thoughts, words and deeds, they must first change themselves and be psychologically prepared for a long-term "battle."
The principle of positive discipline is like a jigsaw puzzle, which consists of the following small pieces. You have to combine these small pieces to have a more comprehensive understanding.