After a long and difficult six-year-old, both parents and teachers breathed a sigh of relief. Children can finally enjoy a quiet and peaceful childhood, and they are no longer afraid. However, they began to retreat, no longer afraid of tigers, and were cautious everywhere. The most worrying thing is that what they seem to want to do most is to hide in a corner of the world and be isolated from the world in order to feel safe. Compared with the opening up at the age of six, seven-year-old autistic children are worrying.
At the same time, seven-year-old children become braver. What was once unacceptable, they began to accept from a rational point of view. For example, at the age of six, I was hysterical because I went to the dentist, but at the age of seven, I was able to face the dentist relatively calmly. He said, "If I don't go to the dentist, my tooth will keep hurting. I must be treated by a dentist before my teeth stop hurting. " Perhaps because there is too little stimulation, seven-year-old children often fall into negative emotions. For example, a seven-year-old boy said, "I don't want to live." I am really unlucky. " After asking, you will find that the reason why he doesn't want to live is because he is at the same table with a child he doesn't like.
Although they often fall into negative emotions, seven-year-old children will try very hard to control themselves. You know, it's not easy for this little man to control himself. Because of this, parents should guide their children and let them know that everything can't be perfect and accept their true selves. If a six-year-old child is a roaring sea, then a seven-year-old child is an undercurrent sea. Beneath the seemingly calm appearance, they are often struggling with themselves, hoping to do everything better.
Parents often worry when they see that seven-year-old children have so many little blues. You know, as the long river of life flows slowly forward, a seven-year-old child will gradually become happy when he is eight years old. What parents need to do is to listen patiently to the seven-year-old child's complaints, not to take his hatred for his friends seriously, and not to think that life is really as painful as he says. For a seven-year-old child, all this is normal. Only when mom and dad are calm can they help their children stop being emotional.
Doudou is seven years old. His seventh birthday coincided with the weekend, and his mother decided to take him to the mall to buy gifts. When he arrived at the shopping mall, Doudou saw many children get together and rushed over. It turned out that a children's training camp was temporarily built here. The training camp is tied together with strong wooden sticks, including climbing events and wooden bridges. The whole training camp is as high as three floors and is divided into three floors. There is no doubt that with the increase of altitude, training becomes more and more difficult. Many children have gone up to play, and some are only three or four years old. There is a coach to protect the child, and the child is still wearing a seat belt. Seeing that Doudou has been standing by, my mother also wants Doudou to try. Doudou always hesitates to say, "Wait a minute, wait a minute." He stood watching for a long time, but he couldn't make up his mind to go up. My mother, who had been waiting patiently, was a little anxious and said, "Look, there are many children aged three or four! They are not afraid. You are a seven-year-old big brother. How can you fall behind? " With her mother's repeated encouragement, Doudou decided to give it a try.
I can see that Doudou is very nervous. Although he is on the first floor, wearing a seat belt, with a thick sponge pad under him and a coach guarding him in a difficult place, he is still very scared. After his mother paid the money, he even wanted to back down. Mother had to solemnly say, "I have already paid the money, so I must play." Don't be afraid, mom believes you are the best! " In this case, Doudou can't have courage. So my mother held Doudou in her arms and patiently said, "Doudou, you see, these projects look difficult, but they are not difficult." I think, as long as you work hard, you will certainly pass the customs smoothly. "Standing on a tall stick, Doudou really has no way out. He stood at the back of the children's line and passed the customs in turn. After struggling to finish the first lap, he actually liked the sport. Mom quickly encouraged him: "Doudou is great! Doudou is so brave! " In this way, one lap, two laps, three laps, peas actually walked seven or eight laps in a row. However, for the second floor, he still dared not challenge. Mom didn't rush him, but waited patiently for him to get used to the first floor and offered to go to the second floor.
Peas in this case are far less daring than children of three or four years old. Actually, it's easy to understand. Children aged three or four are not afraid of tigers. Seven-year-old Doug has a lot of experience and more worries. Considering this, my mother won't blame Doudou for not being brave as her younger brother and sister, but try her best to help Doudou dispel her worries and move forward bravely. No matter what children accept, they need a process of digestion. As the saying goes, "a bite is not fat." Only by giving children enough respect, understanding and trust and letting them practice more will they become braver.
Mom and Dad, are you ready for children aged 7-8? Don't worry about watching the once lively and cheerful children become cautious after entering the age of seven! Only by encouraging children and helping them to dispel their worries can children become brave! As long as they are silent for seven years, they will become active, cheerful and optimistic again! ? Remember to pay attention to the forwarding collection after reading it. Your support is the driving force for us to create quality parenting content! !