1. Communication: Keep smooth communication channels with children, listen to children's thoughts and needs, and don't lose your temper or blame easily. We should understand the emotions and needs behind rebellious behavior and try to patiently guide them to express their feelings and thoughts.
2. Correct guidance: After clarifying the children's needs and opinions, if you think the children's opinions are reasonable, you can help them realize their own ideas. If the child's opinions or needs are unreasonable, it is necessary to reason with the child and let him know the seriousness of the matter.
3. Cultivate independent ability: Give children some space to grow up independently and strengthen their ability to handle things.
4. Communicate more: communicate more with children, understand their situation in school and life, and emphasize their intrinsic value.
5. Build trust: match words with deeds, don't promise easily, and promise to children must be fulfilled. Build children's trust in you.
6. Appropriate rewards and punishments: Children in the rebellious period will have misconduct, and parents need patient guidance. Don't lose your temper or blame easily, which will only aggravate the opposition.
7. Example power: Let children see your efforts and changes, and let them feel positive power from your example.
In short, educating rebellious children requires patience, understanding and care. By establishing good communication and trust, as well as correct guidance and encouragement, rebellious children can gradually restore a calm and positive attitude and successfully pass this stage.