In the process of raising children, there will always be emotional breakdown. In the face of children's pranks and unreasonable troubles, parents may collapse in minutes. In life, many parents will yell at their children to make them obedient and sensible. In fact, this method does not play an educational role at all, but will cause some side effects.

Have a grumpy personality

Parents often yell at their children, but the children turn a deaf ear to it and think it is the best way to deal with the problem. Invisible, in fact, parents have already set up a bad image of "grumpy" for their children. When children grow up, they will solve problems in the same way when they encounter unhappy things or setbacks, and their personality will naturally become irritable.

The ability of language comprehension is getting worse.

The language IQ (representing the ability of reading, writing and dialogue) of those who suffered language violence from their parents as children is only 1 12, while the score of those who did not often suffer language violence as children is 124. These people who have suffered from language violence have not developed their language potential. The less the connection between these two areas, the worse one's language comprehension.

menticide

Children who have been scolded by their parents as children are more likely to be depressed when they grow up. Because their hearts are bruised and bruised by their parents' repeated scolding, they can't get the care and respect they deserve, so they will gradually close their hearts. When it is serious, he will think that the world has no meaning to him, because his family treats him like this, he can't see hope, so he takes extreme measures to end his life.