As we all know, many stars in the entertainment circle have given birth to twins, and they wear different clothes for their children. Many people agree with them, because even twins don't have to dress in the same style, and children's personalities are different. However, many parents often buy the same clothes for their children in order to save trouble or let others know that their children are twins. Children are too young to feel it, but once children grow up and understand, many begin to refuse to wear the same clothes.
People often watch variety shows, and we can see that Nana is a person with a particularly high emotional intelligence, and her children are twins, and the clothes she wears for them are completely different. When buying clothes, they always let their children choose their own clothes and never ask them to wear the same clothes. In fact, this is also a kind of respect for children, so that children can wear their favorite clothes and have their own unique style.
Parents should respect their children's personality differences?
Every child has different ideas and has his own independent thinking. At this time, parents should not impose their ideas on their children. We should discover their specialties and cultivate their hobbies. In many families with twins, many parents will subconsciously think that both children have such conditions when they discover a child's special skills, and they will be educated in the same way at this time, which is wrong.
One thing parents need to know is that even twins have different personalities and ways of thinking. Just like my former classmates, they are twins, but their personalities and ways of doing things are completely different. One is honest and the other is particularly naughty. If parents educate them in the same way, it will be the wrong way for another person, so don't generalize just because they are twins, which is totally infeasible.
Don't compare children with others.
Many parents like to compare their children with other people's children, in order to arouse their children's positive heart in this way of education, and these parents will only compare their children's shortcomings with others. If you do this for a long time, children will have negative psychology and have a great influence on children. Every child has different characteristics. Parents should discover their children's advantages, cultivate their hobbies, ensure that they don't compare with others, and let their children grow up healthily.
What are the benefits of respecting children's differences?
Let the children have the direction to work hard.
Every child has a different personality and wants different things. Respecting children's own choices from an early age will give them more self-confidence, let them pursue their dreams freely, give them a direction to work hard, and let them not go astray and lose their way in the future.
Let children learn to respect others.
If it is the correct thinking to impose your own ideas on your child from an early age and instill in him to do things according to his parents' ideas, then this kind of thinking will also exist when the child enters the society in the future. Imposing one's own ideas on others will be very unfavorable to his future foothold in society. If he doesn't know how to respect other people's ideas, naturally he won't be respected by others, and he will be easily rejected in society, which has a great influence on him.
It is very important to educate children differently from an early age. The most important thing is to let children learn to respect others in order to thrive.