At that time, the wedding scene said: "Marry a woman's family, keep candles for three days, and think goodbye; If you get married and go home, you will miss your loved ones if you are unhappy for three days. "It reflects the simple habits of pre-Qin weddings, and there is no scene of making a scene. After entering the Han Dynasty, the social economy developed by leaps and bounds. People are no longer satisfied with the old-fashioned, boring wedding ceremony, no longer stick to the old adage of "three days without happiness", and start to do big things, which makes the wedding ceremony cast a secular festive color. Yang Shuda, a close friend, made a textual research in the book "Wedding and Funeral Customs in Han Dynasty": "Guests often drink and laugh, and their words and deeds are unscrupulous. For example, in modern times, there were new houses in the Han Dynasty. Yang quoted Chang Yan at the end of the Han Dynasty as saying: "At this wedding party, the governor's banter was used to make fun of lust, to publicize the lewdness of the public, to expose the lewdness of the new race, to be filthy and vulgar, and to have lewdness for a long time." "Thus, from the beginning of its appearance, it was regarded as a bad habit.
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