Cyndi Luo, a doctor of child development psychology, said: "There are no bad children, only bad parents." Defending one's faults is not love, but sugar arsenic, which not only harms others, but also harms oneself. The most fundamental feature of justifying a fault is that "parents are unwilling to admit their educational failure". Justifying a fault is not to protect children, but to protect yourself and your face.

Reasonable parents

Reasonable parents know that when giving love to their children, they must distinguish between indiscriminate and serious things.

Children's shortcomings

No one is perfect without gold. Children, too, have advantages and disadvantages. Children are very malleable. After discovering their shortcomings, using appropriate educational methods to face them together with children will help them "set things right" and return to the right path.