There are still some best times to educate children, and everyone is not sure. Give the right education at the right time, and believe that children will grow better and better!
1, when the bad behavior first came out.
Children will form bad habits and can't correct them in time when they have bad behaviors.
Most children are unhappy and don't understand what it is. The first time they fought, the first time I cried, the first time I herded sheep. As a parent, I will seize this "first time" and it will be of great help to educate my children.
Xiaomo is in her hometown in the countryside. Many times, everyone has not closed the door. When I come back for the New Year, I will talk to her. At this moment, another neighbor's child passed by, and Ai Wu said to me, Hey, this child is broken now.
Me: Why do you say that? I remember that he was always quiet and quiet.
Wu Aidi: The child used to be very good, but he didn't know when to start. I always like things. I have all kinds of toys at home. He took the change from the table. I have seen it many times, and every time I told his parents that his parents had nothing, and the children were unwise and didn't mind.
He also said: once, a big brother drove a car during the New Year, took delicious food in the car, forgot the car keys, and later found the car keys, and his wallet was gone. It turned out that the child had stolen it. It was a sensation in the whole village, and everyone felt incredible.
Children's bad habits are hard to change because their parents are uncomfortable. Stealing hands and growing up every hour are also some reasons. Therefore, when children have bad behavior, they should be educated, understood and respected in time. I believe it is not difficult for children to completely change their bad habits!
But I remember that if children do something wrong, don't do it to many people. It's a mess I should take the children aside, and I will gradually realize myself. Mistakes don't create fear.
2. When you get good grades.
I got three good students when the children got good grades or progress was in progress. Children at this time are more confident than usual. At this time, parents should seize the opportunity and get good grades. They can put forward new goals appropriately, guide children to transfer their enthusiasm and endurance and win the chase. Let children have a new goal, and their strength will not decrease.
At the same time, I must tell you, don't be proud, don't be complacent, because a little level will only make you fall behind, not before. While praising children, let them know how to make people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. When the child's little friend gets the score, the child's appearance may not care, but it will be decided by the decision and try to catch up. Parents can seize this opportunity, set appropriate goals for their children, and tell them not to overclock too much, so as not to cause their children's inferiority complex.
3. When receiving guests
When you have guests or go out, this is also the best time for children.
When eating, if the child drops the food on the table, I still feel funny. You will be embarrassed to say to the guests: the children are too picky, and I always toss them. After eating, you will ask the child what he wants to eat.
Maybe you think this may be a common problem for children, no, but others think your children are uneducated.
Therefore, in the treatment, the child's behavior is not good, so it is necessary to remind the child appropriately. Children's education, parents' training and children's behavior education are not in place, so parents must strictly correct them.
I hope that children can show themselves well in front of others, negotiate with them in advance, and teach them, for example: mom agrees with you, and if you can't do this, you won't take you to the future; Guests will bring you presents. I see. Thank you. This kind of similar voice will be more acceptable if you criticize your child when he is not doing well in advance.
4. When children are frustrated,
On the road to growth, everyone will encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, and so will children. Parents can earn this time to educate their children, let them walk less and face it bravely.
Many parents will say to the boy: Is this a trivial matter, a boy, crying, shy? This will make children feel that tangled emotions are a very painful thing. So ...
1) When the child is in the car,
2) When the children clean the house, it's a mess.
3) When children work hard, the exam is not yet the right time.
Parents should cheer for their children, discuss how to do better, help them overcome difficulties, protect their self-confidence and let them not be discouraged.
Tell children that it is like a spring, strong, weak, weak, you can cry, but you can't escape.
Sometimes parents are confused. I don't know what the child said. Actually, a hug is enough!
Slowly, children treat setbacks, not so frowning, but smiling!
In addition to the above four points, it is actually time to educate children, and there are many others. As long as parents pay, the disease will be suppressed. I believe every child will teach better and won't let you down!