1. If the daughter reaches puberty, it is very important for the father to participate in the education and life of the child. Because girls learn how to get along with the opposite sex by getting along with their fathers. When girls reach puberty, they begin to have secondary sexual characteristics. Some children, the seeds of love, are confused. Now, fathers are very busy. If there is no time to participate in children's education before, then the role of fathers in this period is very obvious. At this time, children will be more dependent on their fathers, so fathers should pay more attention to girls. There is also that girls are more likely to have conflicts with their mothers when they reach puberty. So father is very important in this period.

2. Understand children more and learn to communicate with them well. Because of the relationship between body and mind, coupled with adolescence, children's academic pressure and interpersonal conflicts are even greater. Because everyone has a great personality, parents should learn to communicate well with their children, learn to understand their children and establish a good parent-child relationship during adolescence. If children in this period can't get the care and warmth of their families, they will be very lonely and depressed, especially prone to problems, such as giving up their studies, being frustrated after falling behind, and unwilling to work hard. This is a pity.

3, give more encouragement to children, give more positive energy to children, and let children's lives have more sunshine and hope. At this time, children are eager for attention. Of course, reasonable attention is very important. When there is a problem, you only know to suppress the child or blame the child, which is very unfavorable for the child's growth. So it is important to learn to appreciate children.