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How to treat parents' oppressive education in family education correctly?
First of all, my parents' suppression of education has a great influence on me. Must be opposed. Trying to "challenge" education by belittling children will actually hurt children's self-esteem and self-confidence. It is actually quite common for parents to "crack down on education" for their children. Many parents will say to their children, "Look at other people's children, and then look at you". Parents had hoped to set an example for their children with excellent people, but this would actually cause great psychological pressure on their children and fail to play an educational role.

Secondly, I think every family and every parent has their own unique way of education and getting along with their children. As far as the video of "My son was laughed at by his biological mother when he took the Tsinghua Peking University exam" is concerned, "it is possible that she usually communicates with her children in a humorous way".

Third, parents are not perfect education experts. The society wants parents to do a good job in family education, but at the same time, they should not put too much pressure on their parents. It is necessary to emphasize an ordinary and daily interaction. Parents can combine their own characteristics and experiences to think about how to interact with their children better and more effectively. "This does not mean that we should advocate a single educational method and a single image of parents."

Finally, I suggest that parents educate their children in an encouraging way, actively explore their advantages and specialties, and pay attention to equality when communicating with their children, which requires patience. However, we should also pay attention to discretion when encouraging education, "because if we praise blindly, it may bring some effects, such as children's self-esteem is stronger and their ability to withstand setbacks may be weaker."