Children's words and deeds are the result of the accumulation of "words and deeds" in daily life. We should integrate every bit of life into the education of children. When we reason with a child, don't think she is a child, and don't tell her if you don't understand. In fact, children will remember what we said and will follow it slowly in their later lives. If they wait until she knows the truth, the children won't listen to you.

teach by precept and example

Behind many words and deeds of children are the words and deeds of parents: you didn't teach your children to have a bad temper, but you have a bad temper; You don't teach your children to beat people and swear, but you are a rude person in their daily life; You didn't teach your children not to be serious, but you didn't show too much concentration in work and life.

Invisible family education

Family education has already begun in our life, but we seldom think that how to talk to children, how to deal with small parenting matters, how to treat ourselves and how to treat family members will all be presented to children, which will play a great role in family education. Only by perfecting these intangible education can we influence children subtly.

Improve the quality of education

What our parents want to change is to see those "invisible family education", improve their quality, and let every detail we get along with our children play a positive role, not a negative role.