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Why don't foreign old people bring grandchildren?
The main reasons why foreign elderly people don't have grandchildren are as follows:

1, children brought up by their mothers are more conducive to growth.

It is the greatest love for a mother to raise her child by herself. Mother's companionship in children's growth is an important source of children's sense of security, and it is also the premise for children to develop good character and healthy psychology.

Most left-behind children in China have personality defects and feel very lonely psychologically. Making money is a never-ending thing, but children grow up instantly.

If a child grows up in the most important years, without his mother's company and lack of maternal love, it will be an injury that the child will never heal. In addition to the role of the mother, the role of the father is also very important for the growth of children. Therefore, there is generally a family day in Britain. On this day, dad does nothing but play with his children, have an outing or play football.

2. Contradictions and conflicts broke out in intergenerational education.

With the development of the times, the concept of young people is becoming more and more fashionable, which is definitely different from that of the elderly. At this time, we middle-aged and elderly people might as well let go and believe that shine on you is better than blue, and each generation is stronger than the next.

Intergenerational education will lead to some contradictions and conflicts more or less. Letting go not only reduces such contradictions, but also gives me more rest time to chat with friends, play cards, sing and dance.

Of course, for young people, they should also understand their parents more. After all, parents mean well. In terms of life experience, the elderly are always richer than the young.

3. Old people abroad all have their own pension plans.

Most old people in China are empty. After retirement, some old people seem to suddenly change from a vibrant person to another person, and some even get Alzheimer's disease at once.

Because before retirement, life pushes itself, and after retirement, there is no motivation to "push" behind it, just like a wandering without a sense of direction. Without sustenance, they will become sensitive at this time, and even place the value of their lives on the respect and attention of young people.

Old people in foreign countries can enjoy life if they find their own fun, arrange their own lives, travel, write books, or even just volunteer in the community, take care of the garden and be a diligent gardener.