Be ignored. Obviously, I try my best to express my views, but adults either don't respond or express their views themselves, no matter what the children think. Beat and scold. This kind of beating and cursing is like this: children make mistakes because they don't understand, and parents don't have positive guidance, so they beat and scold as soon as they come, because they will remember it for a long time after meals. Don't admit your mistake. Parents have their own authority, sometimes they are wrong and their children are right, but they can't put down their faces and admit their mistakes. What's more, the child found the evidence that the parents were wrong, but the parents chose to solve it by high pressure, and the child did not dare to speak. Family education affects a person's life, and the behavior of parents as family educators is the key to family education. If parents behave improperly, it will hurt their children's body and mind. Language violence; Parents' verbal violence against children is the most harmful to children. For example, cynicism and belittling regardless of occasions will seriously hurt children's self-esteem and make them feel inferior, which will accompany their children for life and seriously affect their lives and careers.

Some parents are grumpy, rude to their children, a little unhappy, and beat and scold their children without asking right and wrong, which seriously hurts their self-esteem. Such behavior of parents will have a psychological shadow on children, and children will have psychological problems that will affect their lives. Some parents are indifferent to their children and treat them coldly no matter how well they do. Such behavior of parents will make children lack self-confidence and love, and children will not know how to love others when they grow up, thus affecting their families. Some parents are not harmonious, often quarrel and abuse each other, or ignore each other and take cold violence against each other, which will cause family tension and make children tremble, thus causing psychological problems for children and affecting their lives. In a person's life, the original ecological family has the greatest influence, and the behavior of parents in the original ecological family is the most important. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds and don't hurt their children intentionally or unintentionally.