"Now the number one scholar is this, and his family is good and powerful. My parents are diplomats, and they have created a good family atmosphere for me since I was a child, including my study habits and character cultivation, which are all subtle. Because every step I take has laid a solid foundation, and in the end it will come naturally. "
I have to admit, I was shocked by the words of the champion. One shock is that the champion is telling the truth, and the other shock is because of my age. A high school student, without the baptism of society and the experience of family chores, is really remarkable. Although China is vast and rich in natural resources, the resources will only become scarcer and scarcer. Although children in remote areas, especially in remote mountainous areas, used to have excellent teaching experience, they did not teach nine-year compulsory education there. There are not many children coming out of the mountains, but there will be fewer and fewer children, and the difficulty will become more and more serious.
I am a frontline worker engaged in education. Although I don't have children now, it doesn't hinder my thinking: if I have good educational resources at hand now, even if it is only a little better, I will definitely give my children a better school and send it out within my ability. Even if the child can't learn anything, I am willing to hold everything for the child. Because I am not only for the children's growth now, but also for their future plans. Really, the current competition is really all aspects, and the competition is really getting more and more fierce. Most importantly, you are not the only one who thinks this way and puts it into action.
Let's watch the news: how many families are willing to go to the last stop for a small school district, and how many parents are willing to send their children abroad to study under pressure. Are these parents stupid? Life is already so hard, and they have to add to their difficulties. No, they all want their children to have a good future.
We now generally have three situations:
It is undeniable that our father can realize the importance of his father's education and begin to participate in family education. The general trend of domestic education is that the mother is in charge, so the father's factor is planned for the mother for the time being, and how much the mother has paid (the heart is that the father should not be addicted to the game and keep up with the mother's footsteps). The effect is 1+ 1. 2
Children's growth depends not only on their own (talent, diligence) and parents' efforts, but also on the quality level of their peers (relatives, friends, employers' nannies, full-time study, full-time teachers).
1, mom and dad have a good balance between family and workplace. Half take care of themselves and the other half help them.
Mom and dad make money together to support their families, raise and educate their children, and have a common educational philosophy. Although I am very busy at ordinary times, I will also take time to care for and educate my children. Such children can get good educational resources (good school districts or good private schools, international schools, interest classes or small classes), and also give them some space freedom (mainly because they are busy and have no time to manage).
Why do parents tend to be "bad" by "bad children" when arranging their children to attend junior high school and senior high school? It is because parents are busy that they have no time to take care of their children. The companions (relatives, friends, employers, nannies, full-time teachers) who appear around the children during this period have a high quality level, so the children's next learning path will be smoother.
On the other hand, it is ...
2. Stay-at-home mothers take care of their children by themselves
Many stay-at-home mothers abroad are made up of elites in the workplace, and now there are also these trends in China. These mothers have elites in the workplace, schoolmasters and technical experts. Some of them even surpass the school teachers in the ability of cultivating children, but they still work hard for their children's tomorrow.
3. Parents are busy at work, and grandparents take care of their children.
And most people belong to this situation, young parents work hard, and the old people (grandparents) at home help with the children, huh? Does everyone seem to be in the same situation? What's there to say?
We fight not only for our parents, but also for our grandparents.
I have a sister, like this. The children were entrusted to grandma for care. One day, when we were having dinner, 1 half-year-old children could eat and peel shrimps by themselves.
I asked at that time: Sister, what's the secret of taking care of your children so well?
Sister said: her grandmother brought it, you know, there are no weak soldiers.
In this sentence, the child's ability is revealed. My friend's child is 2 years old and can't eat with a spoon by himself. Later, when asked, it turned out that grandma spoiled her too much and kept feeding her children for fear that they would not have enough to eat.
Why does grandma bring up older children, and the ability of children is so different? With the accumulation of time at any time, in the important stage of children's senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, the child's life trend will definitely be more different, but we will give it a name to make it easier for us to accept: fate.
Their children have a good life, and they can teach and be smart as soon as they learn.
People deserve to die, goods should be thrown away, and the living conditions, education and quality of each family are different. If you force imitation without reviewing your own situation, the final result will be different.
The child's first teacher is the child's parents.
If parents like to play mobile phones and iPad, don't ask their children why you have to watch TV, play mobile phones and play games before you finish your homework today.
If parents like reading books themselves, they are not worried that their children will not like these extracurricular books.
In fact, children are just like you. Just like in a report, when interviewing an excellent student, she said frankly that what my parents and I do most in the living room is reading books together.
Not only should parents learn scientific parenting knowledge, but parents can also tell their grandparents the correct parenting methods. Every child's situation is different. You can't think that this is all after reading a little knowledge today. Luo Pang said: "Pay tribute to lifelong learners." I hope everyone can keep learning on the road of education.
Children are the flowers of the motherland, and flowers need the irrigation and scientific care of their parents, and give Ta the nutrients I can. Then, wait for the flowers to bloom and wait for the final result.