Show your outlook on life and values to your child with your words and deeds, and he will have his own judgment and choice. If you think there is too much homework and the teacher is abnormal, are you willing to let the children refuse to finish it and bear the blame from the school and the teacher? Are you willing to let your children teach themselves at home? Many people who think they are smart often say, "If you can't change the reality, get used to it", but forget that the so-called reality is actually created by everyone. No matter how trivial your choice seems, it is an inseparable part of reality and also affects and determines the direction of reality. Are you willing to stand your ground? Even at the cost? If you like, you are changing reality. If you choose to adapt because you are afraid of losing some vested interests, there is nothing to complain about. You can still wait patiently for those who refuse to adapt to change the reality for you. Even stupidity is sometimes more valuable than adaptive wisdom.