I think parents and teachers should face this problem correctly. In fact, 14-year-old children are sensible, but a little naive.

Therefore, we must get rid of bad habits. Then we must be gentle and kind to them, convince people by reasoning, praise them more and criticize them less, and they will be convinced. At this time, they will listen to your persuasion. Their rebellion was accomplished by us (parents and teachers).

2. Pay more attention to encouragement

Be more tolerant, especially for children's rebellious behavior, and be more patient. Guide children to be good at expressing themselves, don't hide problems in their hearts, and communicate with parents, family and friends more. Encourage children to accept themselves more actively, so that parents will feel at ease and their children will have a bright future.

Step 3 respect children

Parents should respect their children's personality development, give them enough space and trust them. It is necessary to encourage children to learn, and give them more verbal rewards and comfort when they express themselves particularly well, study hard and make progress. Moreover, children should be treated equally, so that children can trust themselves easily, so as to understand and tolerate each other.