The necessity of educating children? Three hearts? Parents should be quiet first.
The accelerated pace of life and the continuous development of the information age have given birth to a new era? Fast food culture? The emergence of fast food culture exposed people's impetuous hearts, and education is doomed in this environment. Some parents, in particular, are anxious to see their children become talents and their daughters succeed, which leads to too many premature fruits and many tragedies.
Secondly, parents should be cautious.
If parents don't pay attention to their children's education, many people may stand up and refute it. If you think about it carefully, it is not difficult to find that some parents are really serious about their children's education. In fact, they just paid for it to reassure themselves. This practice of pushing the responsibility of educating children to the outside world is wrong and unacceptable to children.
Finally, parents should be ordinary.
Don't expect too much from your child, that is, when setting goals, you must conform to the characteristics of your child's psychological development. Parents should never be too ambitious and ask their children? Fly higher? . It is necessary to admit that a child is a blank sheet of paper, rather than being born a genius, and to educate the child as a child, rather than cultivating the child on the same day.
Family education should have three hearts 1. Have love for children.
Maybe you will say which parents don't love their children? Love is not infinite material satisfaction, but real education is an activity of mutual affinity. Only from the bottom of my heart can I reach the depths of my soul. I often give Wenwen a big hug, a ha ha laugh, a small gift and a persuasive guide, which will make her feel my love for her and enhance her trust in us, so we should all use love to cultivate children's good behavior habits.
2. Be childlike with children.
The so-called childlike innocence does not mean that we giggle at the children all day, but that we look at the problems from the children's point of view, think about the problems and play the role of children's friends. We should respect children's whimsy and understand their childish behavior of treading water in rainy days. Last summer vacation, she was fascinated by the Three Kingdoms Killing, so there were often scenes where a family of three sat on the floor and killed each other. Wen Wen thanked me and her mother for improving their card skills and killing all the invincible people in the community.
3. Be normal to children.
Children are the future and hope, and they contain great potential and infinite possibilities. Let us warm their young hearts with love, knock on the door of their wisdom with childlike innocence, and illuminate their growth path with normal heart.
Mothers teach their children three hearts (1) self-confidence. Educating children must first have confidence and believe that their children are good. Some parents asked, my child's grades are at the bottom of the class. How can you make me have confidence in my children? How can I believe that my children are excellent? Indeed, if we look at their grades, your children are not excellent. But from the perspective of children, as parents, we must believe in our children, otherwise no one will believe that their children are excellent. When children often fall behind in their grades, teachers look down on him, classmates look down on him, relatives and friends sneer, and children will definitely feel inferior in their hearts. Parents believe in him and are also doing his strong backing. There are many aspects of success, and academic performance is only part of it.
(2) patience. Patience is the most important. If you don't have the patience to educate your children, it will be empty talk. Many parents lack patience in educating their children and always find it difficult to educate them. After all, educating children is interpersonal communication and full of human feelings, rather than facing computer work, which is a silent realm. It takes patience to educate children. Many parents know this truth, but it is very challenging to implement it. However, as parents, we have to think about it. Your patience may change a child's life. From the perspective of children's life, you should be more patient, which is also worthwhile. With this view of thinking, you will have patience.