This kind of crying education will only make children oppressed by money from an early age. In other words, you have no choice but to succeed. Of course, some children have succeeded, but most children will not be rubbing their hands because of this at this time, but will get a kind of pressure: where do I know how to succeed? I am working hard now and have learned a very general level.
In other words, this way of crying for poverty will make children end their study struggle ahead of schedule, thus starting to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and starting to work hard for petty profits. In other words, such children are afraid to go forward even if they encounter opportunities, because they are used to being afraid of their hands and feet and want to devote themselves to the lifestyle of bread, milk and eggs as soon as possible. In other words, his chances of real success in the future are slim.
Of course, it cannot be said that such a child has no future. But in fact, they can do better and must go higher and further. This is crying for poverty, which brings children a lack of realistic security, so that they can't have the opportunity to pursue their dreams and worldly success, but they can't get in the way.
Another kind of crying poverty is that parents begin to cry poverty in the face of some unreasonable needs and even requirements of their children. But this kind of crying for poverty is just to let children not have such unreasonable demands and let them know that money is hard to come by. Therefore, this kind of crying poverty is a strategic crying poverty. It is not putting pressure on children, but an indirect refusal, so it will not cause children's self-worth to decrease and lose their sense of security. My parents often cry for poverty, so I am very opposed to it. I have lived in fear of having no money since I was a child. I even have to worry about whether it is too foolish to buy stationery after work, so I want to leave my family now. It's really painful.