How can kindergarten teachers criticize children scientifically? Criticism? From where? Heart? Let's start. Take your time, okay? Criticism?
Our education targets are children aged 3-6, who are like blank sheets of paper. His or her personality? Thousands? , known as having? A hundred languages? . In order for children to accept criticism and develop a good character of admitting and correcting mistakes, we must first go into their hearts, understand their personality characteristics and their thoughts in time, and let them be willing to accept criticism, so as to better guide them to develop in a healthy direction.
Second, give play to the charm of example education and accept it slowly? Criticism?
Teachers should realize that no matter how careful we are, there will always be mistakes and mistakes in treating children. We should put down our airs, dare to admit our mistakes in front of our children, and set an example for them to correct their mistakes when they know it, so that they will trust you more.
Paying attention to the people-oriented relationship between teachers and students and building a relationship of democracy, equality, mutual respect, mutual trust and mutual cooperation can make our education work get twice the result with half the effort. Therefore, children should be treated equally with themselves, become children's learning consultants, and listen to their opinions and demands in time. Establish a harmonious relationship between teachers and students, close the distance between teachers and students, hold a trusting and peaceful attitude towards children, learn from each other and grow together.
Third, use effective educational strategies and accept them slowly? Criticism?
It is not enough for children to learn to accept criticism, because the object of our education is children, and it must be combined with usual teaching activities to achieve better results. Therefore, it is necessary to integrate critical education into game stories, compile some role games with plots, and let children acquire some good moral behaviors in games. You can also set up some problem scenarios to guide children to practice good moral behavior.
Fourth, the interaction with the environment stimulates children's communication and slowly accepts it? Criticism?
Research shows that a large part of children's behavior habits and good character are formed in the process of peer communication. Kindergarten is a place where children live together. As teachers, we should make full use of this kind of resources, create an environment for children to communicate, and let children establish communication consciousness in this environment, so as to improve their ability to distinguish right from wrong in the process of communicating with their peers.
In the garden, it is easy for children to have conflicts over a trivial matter. Their ability to solve problems is weak, and they are particularly fond of complaining and seek help from adults through complaining. In order to dilute children's complaining consciousness and improve their problem-solving ability, reducing conflicts between children is one of the ways. In children's activities, teachers use? Partner? Join the identity of a child. When a child has an argument and makes a wrong behavior, try not to? Arbitrary? Instead, they are involved in finding the causes of disputes between children, distinguishing right and wrong behaviors, discussing coordination methods, and helping children master correct communication skills.
So, as long as children can distinguish right from wrong and take the initiative to admit their mistakes, a simple sentence? I'm sorry. Is everything okay? , not only avoid the conflict between each other, but also promote the communication between peers.
5. study? Criticism? Let it grow up happily
? To err is human. ? Children will inevitably make mistakes, however, some teachers' criticisms, like a hammer, slammed down and their heads buzzed, and the children were instantly smashed into a gourd; Like irrelevant wind, children are deaf and deaf; Some teachers' criticisms, like a gentle breeze and drizzle, suddenly dispelled the haze in children's hearts, allowing children to reflect on their behavior happily and willingly correct their mistakes. Therefore, teachers must attach importance to criticism when using it as a means of education? Art? Let children get the right to correct their mistakes, and better let children gain self-confidence, happiness and development.
Thus, as long as we always sound the alarm for ourselves, be patient and make rational use of it? Criticism? This kind of education is bound to have an effect. In the process of education, we will find that children are right? Criticism? There has been a gradual change from strong rejection. Although this change is only very preliminary, we are very gratified that children have changed their emotional and behavioral responses to criticism to some extent. On the other hand, teachers themselves have also been promoted. Teachers are not only educators, but also a process of self-education, which promotes the formation of children's healthy personality and constantly improves themselves while educating children. It can be said that in this process, it is also a period of time for yourself? Baptism? .
Six, home close cooperation, hand in hand.
Kindergarten education and family education have their own advantages and are irreplaceable. Sue Holinsky said: Neither school education without family education nor family education without school education can accomplish the extremely detailed and complicated task of cultivating people. ? It is a long process to study children's behavior and cultivate good character. The two sides should jointly create communication channels and carry out cooperative education activities in their respective homes.
Kindergartens actively publicize the importance of early childhood education and family education, and improve parents' sense of educational responsibility; Propagandize correct educational ideas; Publicize scientific parenting methods and principles; Help parents learn how to create a good family education environment. Learn about children's performance at home through home visits, parents' meetings, parents' gardens and happy homes. And discuss the countermeasures of home cooperation. We should realize our responsibility and start by changing our educational behavior and methods.
Close cooperation between families can not only achieve very good results in children's education, but also enable parents to better establish a correct concept of parenting.
As the saying goes:? Can't eat hot tofu in a hurry? Cultivating children's good character of accepting criticism is not a one-off event. But we should be full of confidence, because children's emotional and behavioral adverse reactions to criticism can be constantly changed through appropriate educational methods and methods, and can be used scientifically and reasonably? Criticism? This kind of educational means can promote the formation of children's good character. We should be more clear that the main purpose of letting children accept criticism is to improve their ability to distinguish right from wrong, dare to admit mistakes and correct them. Criticism? It is to make children realize that their actions are wrong and the consequences of such mistakes, not to make children timid. Criticize children's shortcomings and mistakes? It is necessary, but criticism should also be artistic.
As educators and guides, we should slowly influence children with love, patience and care, let them accept criticism slowly, and promote their healthy physical and mental development. As the saying goes:? There are no students who can't teach well, only teachers who can't teach well. ? He is a dragon in your consciousness, so he can become a dragon; You realize that he is a tapeworm, so he may become a tapeworm. Jackie Chan, a child and an adult, has an important relationship with what kind of eyes we look at children and what kind of mentality we use to help them. As educators, we should treat children's shortcomings and mistakes with tolerance and love, and cultivate the masters of the new century with sincerity.