1. Parents usually expect too much from their children.

Nowadays, many parents will set a higher goal for their children. They often use the test scores of the children next door or examples of media publicity to motivate their children and ask them to spend all their time struggling, but the result is often that most of them are disappointed.

2. Emotional cultivation is not in place

Almost most parents only care about their children's learning, but basically ignore their emotional cultivation. Often these parents don't care whether their children are sunny, happy, passionate, idealistic and interested.

Then a child without ideals and pursuits will not study hard. Cultivating children is a complex and big project, which requires all aspects to attach importance to the cultivation of children's knowledge, ability and emotion.

3. Improper family education methods.

Many parents have the desire of "looking forward to the success of their children and their daughters". In the process of family education, they have been using the education methods of the older generation, which is called stick education. The educational methods adopted are often simple and rude, and children are always beaten and scolded. Then the children educated by this inappropriate educational method will have great psychological defects.

4. Ignore frustration education.

Every child will encounter difficulties, setbacks and confusion on the road to growth. In school education, more attention is paid to how to impart more knowledge to students, while family education needs to undertake more frustration education for children. Consciously cultivate children's ability to face setbacks and relieve stress with a positive attitude when encountering setbacks and pressures.

But at present, most parents ignore the frustration education for their children in family education because they are too fond of their children and unwilling to let them suffer a little, which leads to their children not having enough courage to face future setbacks and pressures.

How should parents educate their children correctly?

1, respect children. Every child has self-esteem. Parents should not always treat them as "children". If they want to educate their children well, they should respect them and protect their self-esteem.

2. Set an example. The best way to educate children is to set an example. If parents love reading and calligraphy, their children will also be influenced by it.

3. Encourage in time. When educating children, we should encourage them in time, stimulate their imagination and creativity, and make them more bold and confident, instead of always preaching to them.

4. Distinguish between right and wrong. Parents should clearly distinguish between right and wrong, not be greedy for petty gains, not make things out of nothing, clearly distinguish between right and wrong, and tell their children what is right and wrong, so that children can be very positive from an early age.