Every child with inferiority complex is an angel scattered all over the world.
They just lost their way for a while.
1. Negative education
To be a good parent, you can't condescend to your children. You should start by changing the habit of criticizing children and changing the habit of "saying irony".
2. Excessive intervention
Some parents don't want their children to try, let alone encourage them to fail, because they love their children too much or lack patience to accompany them.
3. Lack of educational consensus
Family members lack consensus on educating their children. For example, if a child makes a mistake, his father will criticize education and his mother will protect him.
4. Remember education.
Educating children should not only be persistent, but also not ignore details. For example, you can't talk with food in your mouth when eating;
Step 5 educate when you are angry
When educating children, you must learn to restrain yourself. When children make us angry, we must hold back and not get angry in a hurry, because no matter what we do, the "first thought" that comes out first is often problematic.
6. Turn all conversations with children into education for children.
The less you communicate with your children, the less you may know how to communicate with them. The less you know how to communicate with children, the less you understand them.
7. Educate children before eating and going to bed.
Meal time should be a time of warmth and gratitude in the family. Never educate a child while he is eating, which will make him tremble and do great harm to his body and mind.
8. Comparative education
There is a huge difference between children. Every child has secrets that we don't know. We might as well talk to the child patiently and make an analysis for him patiently, so that the child will not feel inferior.
9. "Combined punishment for several crimes"
"Combined punishment for several crimes" first shows that you usually spend too little time with your children, care too little, and fail to fulfill your minimum responsibilities as a parent. Secondly, it also shows that you are "bitter" and like to turn over old scores.
10. Use threats
You yelled at him, pointed at him, and threatened him to obey authority. But in the eyes of children, this is just a sign that you are out of control. This behavior is rude.