Many parents have heard others say that when educating their children, they must harden their hearts. If they are not hard-hearted, they will be useless to their children's education, but will indulge them and do them no good. If you don't make up your mind to educate your children when you are young, someone will help you educate your children when you grow up. Bian Xiao thinks this idea is correct, because educating children really needs to start from an early age. When the child grows up, if the society is allowed to educate the child, the child will definitely not be able to stand it.

First, parents should not spoil their children too much. Many parents wrap their children in their mouths and hold them in their hands as treasures. They are afraid of melting and hold it in their hands, so they are always hard on their children. Even if the child makes a mistake, he is not willing to punish with a smile. They will always let their children live under their own umbrella and help them remove all obstacles on the road. But this way will only make children useless, become flowers in the greenhouse, can't stand any ups and downs, and have no sense of responsibility when they grow up. They want to give up when they encounter some setbacks and difficulties, and they have no ability to solve problems. They won't have any responsibilities, and they won't have any good future.

Second, parents must have a long-term vision if they want their children to have a good future. There are no parents in the world who don't love their children, but they should also pay attention to the methods of loving their children. If parents are always unwilling to let their children go through the storm, everything will be in front of them, which will make their children unable to live and it will be difficult for them to stand in society when they grow up. Therefore, if parents want their children to be useful, they must make up their minds to let them learn to live independently.

Third, parents should make up their minds to let their children experience setbacks. How can every child see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? It is normal that everyone's life has ups and downs. If parents are always reluctant to let go and let their children go out to experience setbacks, it may be very smooth in the first half of life, but when parents are old, children will experience setbacks sooner or later, and the setbacks at that time will make them even more unbearable. The cruelty of parents is not that they don't care about their children, but that they don't care about the little things in life. They should hone their children with some small things in life, so that when they face great difficulties, they will go forward bravely.