? I can't help thinking that once a person wants to go to extremes, he is always so determined that he doesn't even have a chance to give us professional workers intervention. I feel a little sad! Most of children's problems stem from their specific growth environment, and some things that happen in college are just the last straw to crush the camel. At this time, the psychological counseling work in colleges and universities is a bit like mending after the sheep is lost. If you know that you are sick, it is better to cure it! Instead of waiting for visitors to ask for help, why not put work first and do a good job in family education? So since 2008, I started volunteering for family education. At that time, I asked around where there was an opportunity to give a lecture on family education. The initial intention is to awaken the public's attention to family education as long as there is an opportunity to talk about it, whether there is class fee or not. Unexpectedly, this wait is thirteen years, and it can be predicted that it will be longer until I can't do it.
? Coincidentally, in 2008, Qingdao Women's Federation held a family education promotion activity of "100 public welfare lectures to welcome the Olympic Games into the community". I have given nearly ten lectures covering all the districts and cities in Qingdao. Since then, I have embarked on the journey of family education volunteer service.
? Qingdao Women's Federation has set up a three-dimensional platform for teaching and educating people, entering the community and entering the school. The radio station has a "parent school" and the network has a "parent school" of Qingdao News Network. I undertake the tasks of various platforms every year, with an average of about 30 games per year.
? The lecture has its limitations. Every time parents listen to it, their blood boils, but they die as soon as the heat passes. Just like the autumn wind, a gust of wind comes, leaves fly all over the sky, and the wind stops and returns to its original state. After noticing that a single lecture has its limitations, I am considering whether it is possible to hold a parent salon to consolidate the effectiveness of family education through a series of lectures. This idea hit it off with the red, yellow and blue kindergarten, so I cooperated with the red, yellow and blue kindergarten on 201-2013 and tried a distance course of family education to track and guide the parenting education of some families. Indeed, as originally envisaged, the distance course has achieved very good results. It has been many years, and many parents have contacted me, and the effect of continuous feedback intervention with me is very good!
? 20 13 when I was giving a lecture to parents of red, yellow and blue, I gave a lecture with a sore throat and got vocal nodules. The doctor advised me not to give lectures for a year, but once my heart set sail, it was difficult to close the sail. What if I can't give a lecture? I'm in a hurry! After several years of volunteer service in family education, I have seen the parents' desire and demand. How can we make up for this regret? So, I think, if I can't speak, write a book! Maybe we can spread the idea of family education through books. So I calmed down, sorted out the lectures in recent years, and published the book "In fact, you don't understand children". To my surprise, this book is so popular in the market that it has been printed eight times. When writing this article, I checked and ranked 38 th in Dangdang's classification list! Tens of thousands of copies of sales, that means tens of thousands of people are affected! This is something I never imagined before. Traditional lectures, a lecture down, nothing more than dozens of hundreds of people, the spread of books beyond my expectations, making up for my long illness can not give lectures.
? Later, the Women's Committee of our school's trade union entrusted me to set up the Family Education Promotion Association of Qingdao University of Technology, aiming at spreading family education ideas, knowledge and methods to the teaching staff. I readily agreed. There are currently 342 members. In addition to sharing family education theory and experience in the group every day, every year, the Family Promotion Association will hold various forms of family education activities, and invite experts, outstanding parents and writers inside and outside the school to share family education theory and experience. I also often accept the consultation of my colleagues, guiding them to improve the parent-child relationship and solve some specific problems in family education.
? 2065438+August 2009, on the basis of years of psychological consultation, I published the book "It's not difficult to study hard". Many readers say that it is actually a family education book. Indeed, grades are only the result of family education. I just want to get good grades in school, but I don't know how to give it proper nutrition, water, sunshine and air. The result is definitely not ideal. On the contrary, following human nature, giving it the most suitable growth environment and waiting for the flowers to bloom, the fruits of family education will be dazzling.
? Entering the era of media convergence, I deeply felt the dividend brought by the development of science and technology. Our family education work has a wider radiation range and more beneficiaries!
? 202 1 spring, the first lecture after the epidemic. This is the first offline lecture after the epidemic eased. I gave a lecture entitled "Five Practices of Excellent Parents" in the Family Education Department of Qingdao Education Bureau. The lecture was held in Qingdao No.67 Middle School and broadcast live by Qingdao TV Blue Eye APP. Thanks to the superior organizational ability of the family education department and the blessing of media technology, the audience rating of the lecture is nearly one million. Looking back, when I went to the community to give a lecture, there were only a hundred people in a lecture. Who would have thought that in the era of media integration, a lecture could affect thousands of families, which undoubtedly gave us a shot in the arm. In the second half of 20021,two programs were recorded at the invitation of Educate Everyone, and the ratings of both programs exceeded one million. Looking back at my initial heart, I am still very satisfied! Like a teenager on the beach, I thought I could pick up a starfish, but even if I was one, I never thought I could catch up with a good era. Especially the Family Education Promotion Law, which came into effect on June 65438+1 October1this year, let us see the importance attached to family education from top to bottom, and the national luck is at the forefront!
Home is the smallest country, and there are thousands of countries! With a strong country, there will be a rich home. With family harmony, the country will be smooth sailing.
Liu, an associate professor in the Department of Social Work of Qingdao University of Technology, has published the best-selling book "In fact, you don't understand children" and "It's not difficult to study hard".