2. Establish a competitive mechanism. For older children, they are determined to win toys. Parents may wish to propose a competition, and whoever wins will get a prize. Play a simple game at will, run back and forth, answer puzzles and so on, and the winner can get toys. Remember to give a spiritual reward to the children who didn't win, or send something else to comfort them. This method not only distracts children's attention, but also relieves the tension of competing for toys before.
3. Teach your child to share, understand his feelings from the child's point of view, let the child know that you understand him, and then guide him to put himself in others' shoes, don't do to others what you don't want him to do to you. If children really don't want to share, don't be forced, and parents should also know how to respect their children's choices.
4. Teach him to communicate correctly. Parents should teach their children simple communication language to improve their interpersonal skills. Parents usually tell stories to their children, and the stories are interspersed with problem-solving methods. For example, when Xiaoming wants to play with Xiaohong's toys, Xiaoming can say to Xiaohong, "Will you give me your building blocks for a while?" "Can we play together?" Through constant repetition, let children understand subtly. Only when the other party is willing to give their toys to play with, can everyone have fun together.