At present, most parents often adopt different educational methods in the process of educating their children. After all, every child is different. Some parents like to educate their children with appreciation and often encourage them. Some parents like to guide their children with aggressive education and often criticize and point out their shortcomings. No matter what method, parents simply stand on the position of being good to their children.

So if parents adopt critical education and appreciative education, what will be the difference when children grow up?

Children who have grown up through critical education Many parents are eager to see their children become successful and hope that their children can get ahead one day, so their children are often so anxious. When children are found to have some unsatisfactory performances, these parents often question their children indiscriminately, just like interrogating prisoners. Of course, the child is too young to resist and can only choose silence. If a child makes some small mistakes in his study and life, his parents will still give him a bad look. Even questioning yourself in front of others makes you lose your self-esteem. If children live under the criticism of their parents for a long time, they will often become more depressed, appear unconfident and extremely inferior, and they will often form a sense of self-denial. When these children grow up, they don't have their own opinions, and they are inferior to others in everything they do, which often leads to a cowardly and inferior temperament.

In fact, parents usually like to encourage and praise their children. If a child can do something independently or take the initiative to do everything, parents will praise it without hesitation, and praise it realistically. Parents should not praise their children too much, so parents should also pay attention to the actual situation to admire their children. With the appreciation of parents, children will be more motivated to do anything. After all, their parents praised them so much, and they also hoped to live up to their parents' expectations. Therefore, when these children grow up, they tend to be quite considerate of others, and they are more proactive, full of sunshine and self-confidence.

Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should appreciate their children more, don't criticize them too much, and let them grow up happily and healthily with positive eyes. This is a more meaningful way of education for them.