People who are known for insulting nicknames may just be joking. You can laugh it off. That's what people who don't know each other very well call it You can tell him fairly and sternly. I believe most people will be embarrassed.
Nicknames are very common in reality. It can even be said that everyone has been nicknamed by others in the process of growing up, but generally speaking, most nicknames are the embodiment of a close relationship between relatives and friends. No matter the original intention of the nickname or the nickname itself, there is generally no malice. At best, it's just a joke, and it won't cause resentment and discomfort to the parties.
An insulting nickname is not. The most obvious situation is to nickname other people's physical defects. As far as the parties concerned are concerned, physical defects have made people feel more or less inferior, and it is inevitable that they will have the illusion of "inferiority" in their lives and become sensitive easily. If people use it to talk about things again, even if there is not so much malice behind it, it is tantamount to stabbing a scar. It is naked language violence, which will only bring irreparable trauma to the hearts of the parties.
According to the Investigation Report of China and school bullying, verbal bullying is the main form in school bullying, and its incidence rate is significantly higher than that of relationship bullying, physical bullying and cyber bullying, accounting for 23.3%. An insulting nickname is a kind of verbal bullying. Although verbal bullying is more subtle than physical bullying, and the direct impression it brings is not as strong as physical bullying, it causes no less trauma than physical injury, and some even affect a person's life. Therefore, we must attach importance to verbal bullying and take timely measures to reduce the harm caused by bullying.
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. In our daily life, we must never underestimate the power of language. It can make a person feel happy, and it can also make a person fall into sorrow and despair.
Children who are growing up don't understand the influence of a word on people. They may have the idea of joking and give other children of the same age nicknames unscrupulously. As everyone knows, this nickname may happen to be the most concerned or sensitive weakness of children. An insulting nickname can be called verbal violence. After all, children's psychological endurance is still very limited.
Parents need to do this:
If your child is a victim and psychologically affected, parents need to know the origin of this nickname and then report it to the teacher in time. The teacher came forward to solve the matter.
If the teacher does not pay attention, parents need to be clear about the seriousness of the matter, or go to a higher level to respond to the situation.
You know, some provincial education departments have classified' giving others insulting nicknames' as a category of school bullying, and those who are serious can be expelled from school.
On the other hand, parents need to understand and enlighten their children.
First of all, understand the child's mood and let him take the initiative to tell his inner troubles. Understand his views and feelings about this nickname.
Guide children to warn children with nicknames. Or give each other a nickname with a similar nature, let them know this feeling, and then tell each other seriously and clearly that they don't like this feeling.
Guide children to face their own shortcomings frankly and ignore the ridicule of others.
In this way, the other party will lose interest, and the child will not be affected because of his inner strength. In later life, children will also endure more verbal violence and setbacks.
If parents find that their children give nicknames to other children, they should also educate them in time.
Children need to understand the hurtful degree of words and the scale of jokes. Tell them not to use other people's looks or some shortcomings as nicknames easily. Even if it's a joke, you should learn to think from the perspective of others.
Education is not only for children to learn cultural knowledge, but also for children to learn how to protect themselves and be kind to others. Only in this way can we cultivate a healthy and powerful personality.