In our life, children's education is always concerned by many people. As far as China is concerned, the most common way of education is to beat and scold children. This is a very common phenomenon. Although this phenomenon has also changed a lot, it still exists in some areas. Although this kind of strict education has a certain effect on children's growth, it also has great disadvantages. It will greatly affect children's self-esteem and make them rebellious, so this kind of education method is not desirable, so I think beating and cursing is not the only way in the process of educating children now, and other ways can be used instead. Let me briefly introduce several other methods to you.

First of all, I think encouraging education is also a very good way for children, because if parents actively encourage their children in the process of learning, the children will be very happy psychologically, and he will continue to maintain a perfect learning state, because every child wants the support and affirmation of his parents. Parents' encouragement is the greatest affirmation for children, which can make children have a positive learning attitude.

Second, set an example for children. As parents, we should play an exemplary role in family education, and we should establish a positive attitude for our children. This will have a certain impact on children over time, but children's thoughts will change, which will reduce the situation of children making mistakes and reduce the phenomenon of parents beating and scolding children.

Third, ideological education should be carried out simultaneously with sticks. Of course, if a child in the rebellious period of youth makes a mistake, he still needs to be beaten and scolded, because he won't listen to anything you tell him during this period, so it is necessary to correct it in such a strict way, but there must be a limit and don't over-educate the child. While strictly educating children, we should enlighten them so that they can get out of this rebellious period of youth in a short time and establish a correct concept.