? How to educate rebellious girls?
1, parents should recognize themselves and change themselves.
At this point, I hope parents will pay attention to this. Some parents are even emotional. Children will be angry and then lose their temper. Therefore, parents' irrational emotional state is in the process of educating their children. ? It is often the fuse of children's rebellion, because the premise of educating children is to have a peaceful heart. Therefore, if parents want to solve their children's rebellious psychology, they must first change themselves and control their emotional state in order to make education effective.
2. Understand their feelings and find out the reasons for resistance.
Parents should not put their children on the opposite side of themselves, but should stand in the child's position and feel the child's feelings with heart. When parents make rules for their children, don't "force" some rules that children have been resisting. It is to find out the reasons why children resist and find a solution.
3. Affirm the child's good performance.
Parents' praise can indirectly make children understand right and wrong, so parents should pay more attention to some good performances of their children and give them praise in time.
4. Find an outlet for children's emotions.
Many times, children deliberately do things that adults don't allow in order to vent bad emotions and insecurity. In view of this, when the child loses his temper again, parents should guide him instead of scolding or punishing him.
5. Give children some autonomy.
Since the child is in a rebellious period, parents should stop making rigid rules on some things and conditionally let the child enjoy democratic rights.
6. Spend more time with your children.
Accompanying children is an important factor to alleviate their rebellious psychology, but it is more important to let children feel the love of their parents. Parents' efforts should make children feel it effectively. Caring for children should not be limited to study, but should understand and support their lives and thoughts and spend more time with them. Children, perhaps much better than "tube".