Parents are the givers of children's growth environment, and growth is the only way for a person. Whether they can grow up healthily and form a sound personality depends on their parents. Nowadays, due to the improvement of material life and the changes of the times, many families have higher and higher requirements for their children. Parents should pay attention to their children's cram schools and interest classes, take care of their children's studies, and highlight their specialties. It is best to grow up according to their plan.

Some mothers even said the famous saying "I gave birth to you and raised you, and I don't owe you anything". This kind of "self-touched" maternal love allows children to grow up in a "atonement" way.

Many children who grow up under the "self-touched" maternal love, the father bears the responsibility of making money to support their families, which can be said to be a serious lack of children's growth, and the mother has become more and more powerful in the responsibility of contracting children. Father's busy self and mother's busy self make a child lack the necessary spiritual nutrition for healthy growth, and it is impossible to form a sound personality under such "malnutrition" growth.

Parents should first care for and support each other, then raise and cultivate their children and give their children's lives to themselves, instead of linking them with their own lives. The normal family operation mode helps to establish children's world outlook, and is also conducive to normal communication between parents and children, and even become friends. At the same time, parents can also establish a good image in their children's minds.

This interactive mode is more conducive to educating children, let them learn to respect and care for their parents, and better reflect the value of parenthood. Of course, it cannot be denied that the starting point of these practices is love, but I just don't remember to love myself. Such excessive efforts make you feel inferior, but in the end, it is yourself who really manages your life.

Family is not a battlefield, there should be no so-called sacrifice, and every member should not be humble. Parents and children should learn to love themselves first. Everyone comes to this world, the most primitive role is the family role, and it is also the first and only time to play this role. Parents need to grow up, and children need to grow up, which is why the family they come from is always accompanied by various imperfections.

"Automatic" maternal love will not produce a turning point of happiness, just as the solo stage is often not as shocking as dancing together. I hope that all parents and children can establish a truly equal parent-child relationship, so that all imperfections can become new forces.