1, do everything for children. This kind of education is familiar to parents. For example, when children are too young to do things independently, parents will provide some help. However, some parents are used to doing everything for their children, especially some trivial things in life. In the long run, parents will spoil their children more, which will eventually lead to children losing their ability to take care of themselves. Existing research shows that whatever parents do for their children will bring certain consequences, such as: children can't solve problems independently, children are easily laughed at by their peers, and children are prone to inferiority and pain. Therefore, parents must be aware of the seriousness of all problems and correct them in time. Learn to let go properly, believe in the child's practical ability, supplemented by some patience and companionship. Remember not to rush, and gradually cultivate children's self-care ability.

2. Let the children mind their own business. Children like to mediate conflicts between friends and dare to say no to unfair things. Some parents think that their children mind their own business and then yell at them loudly. In fact, children like to meddle because of their sense of responsibility. With this idea, they often do things that their parents don't seem to understand. In addition, out of enthusiasm for helping others, children want to help others and maintain good interpersonal relationships. Finally, children like to meddle, which is often a sign of self-confidence. Therefore, we can't think that it is bad for children to meddle, let alone that children should not meddle. Especially in daily life, pay attention to your manners and don't impose your ideas on your children. Parents should guide children when they want to meddle. Let children learn to distinguish right from wrong and improve their ability to judge things.

If you don't keep your promise, some parents like to promise their children that you can be what you like. However, when the child meets the parents' requirements and is completed in a very good state, parents will shirk it through various reasons and do not want to fulfill their commitments in time. As we all know, children's trust in their parents is 100% and unconditional. Once parents break their promises, their status in children's minds will also decline rapidly. What's more, if children no longer believe their parents' words, they will be more affected, and they will also develop bad habits of breaking their words and saying no, and even have irreparable serious consequences. Therefore, when parents make a commitment to their children, they must do what they can, and they must not be perfunctory and deal with it casually, so as not to affect the status and image of the children in their hearts.

4. Excessive criticism of children will inevitably lead to mistakes when children grow up. In this case, many parents will be furious, such as reprimanding their children loudly and venting their emotions. Some parents hate iron and steel, criticize their children too much and say some ugly things, which seriously hurt their fragile hearts and affect their healthy physical and mental development. In addition, when parents criticize their children too much, they often magnify their mistakes and deny their correct behavior. Over time, if there are too many times of excessive criticism, children will change from initial guilt to impatience and even boredom. Therefore, parents should pay attention to educating their children, not blindly criticizing and accusing them, which will only make them feel scared or even scared, and can't fundamentally solve the problem. They should talk about the matter, reason with the children patiently, and not scold them rudely. Excessive criticism will only have a negative impact.

5, only pay attention to academic performance, with the idea of never losing at the starting line, many parents will pay too much attention to their children's academic performance, or only pay attention to their children's academic performance, and some parents have the illusion that as long as their children have good academic performance, other aspects are not important. Therefore, in addition to studying, these parents often give extra-curricular classes to their children all night to continuously improve their learning ability. So some children are under great pressure and boring. Regardless of whether the children's academic performance is good or not, once they fail to achieve the desired results, parents often use some methods to spur their children. Over time, children may get tired of learning and even rebel. In fact, it is wrong to focus only on academic performance, and we cannot ignore the process of children's efforts. If children make progress in their studies, parents should encourage them in time and let them know that hard work will pay off. If children can't enter the learning state well and can't beat and scold, it is necessary to help them create a good learning atmosphere, cultivate their good learning mentality and make them better in their efforts.