China's parents are afraid that their children will make mistakes. They always like to predict the results in advance and remind their children not to do this and that. In fact, children grow up making mistakes, so it is better to let them do it themselves, contact and think. This article will introduce five skills for parents to educate their children, so as to help parents better educate their children.

Respect for children

Don't blindly ask children to act according to the adult model. When children have different ideas and do things they have never done before, parents should try their best to provide opportunities for their children and create an activity environment. Carry forward family democracy and give children more say.

Avoid nagging

If parents feel that their children have misbehaved, they must be concise when criticizing or educating them, so as to avoid repeating and turning over old scores. When educating their children, parents should enlighten them in a friendly way, instead of ordering them to avoid boring preaching.

Spiritual exchange

Every child is eager to get the understanding of his parents and learn to listen to them. Don't arbitrarily use "you should ……" to express your opinions and comments, but use a suggestive tone to make children feel the tenderness and love of their parents and be willing to accept their opinions.

harmonious atmosphere

Love between parents is the best education for children. Even if there are occasional differences and quarrels, you should pay attention to your words and make up as soon as possible.

Good attitude

Sometimes it is not a bad thing for children to talk back. On the other hand, children who talk back are generally more assertive and thoughtful. As long as parents properly guide their children's words and ways of speaking, they will neither interfere with others nor discourage their children from expressing their opinions. When the child is mature, the problem of talking back slowly will naturally get better.