? Primitive psychology, two core ideas: autonomy? accept
? Master:
1. Solve phased goals
2. Direction of life: Three independent things in life.
? First, what kind of person I want to be.
? Second, what kind of things I want to do.
? Third, what kind of world I want to create.
? 3. Contribution: Active contribution
? Accept:
1. Divergence: Accept all events without judgment and standards.
2. Inclusive mentality: improve the level of mentality and accept an inclusive mentality.
3. virtuous, carrying things
? Autonomy, according to statistics, 80% of people have no goals and directions, that is, most people fail to achieve career success because they have no clear stage goals, but clear stage goals can solve family and career problems. When you have certain social wealth, family problems, or career bottlenecks, is it clear to look back at your outlook on life, world outlook and values?
? Have you thought about what kind of person you want to be in this life?
? What are you going to do with your life?
What kind of world should we create in this life?
Buddhism solves two major problems of human beings, the first is namelessness. When encountering bad emotions or feelings, ask yourself, are there three things in life that are clear? Are you sure?
? Autonomy in life is the embodiment of the ability to "settle down". A gentleman's business is based on Tao, and the first is duty. What he should do now is to present the true self, that is, the id. This is the law of the universe, that is, Zen, I, Tao, and finally the heart.
Accept it, there will be angry cars in life, there will be a big fight because of one sentence, there will be a bloody case because of one look, and I will forget all the kindness because I am the right husband and wife. In order to prove myself right, I can give up everything, sometimes life.
And all this comes from one of our standards, that is, self-centeredness. Under my standards, we don't look at the direction or the target. It is right to cling to me, but I don't know that when I prove myself right, I am always in pain, and the price I pay is more pain. "This is also possible." If you don't persist in treating things, what will you gain?
Acceptance is divided into four levels:
? Suffer: Suffer
? Bear: Stress?
? Accept: take responsibility
? Enjoy: be happy
? These four levels are the presentation of our inner levels. High level of tolerance, low level of tolerance, big heart. But when their hearts are big enough, they can accommodate more people. When their hearts are big enough, they can care about the interests of all beings in the world, that is, success and achievement, that is, carrying things with goodwill.
? If you have the heart, you will find that you can't stand it. When you can't control your emotions, look back to see if you are independent. If you want to get angry now, are you consistent with the person you want to be? When you really want to be that person, what should your heart do?
? Therefore, autonomy, accepting one yin and one yang, autonomy is yang accepting is yin.
? Face life sincerely, dare to take responsibility, have the ability to face the consequences of things, and everything will come naturally. Always keep yourself in a state of awareness, always aware of the level of the heart, the level of the heart will become the most beautiful world, and the world will be better because of your efforts!