The characteristics and methods of home-school co-education in the sixth Lide Shu Ren Open Family Education Class were broadcast. The following is a model essay on the characteristics and methods of family education with many children, which I compiled for you, for reference only, and I like to collect and share!
Characteristics and methods of family education with many children How much influence does family education have on children's future? Please don't take it lightly. Family education has an extraordinary influence on children, and some parents may regret it for life. Why don't you believe it? In fact, there are many true stories, and some childhood events may even affect a child's life. But some things are a little sentimental, so let me tell you something. ...
There was a girl since I was a child. This girl used to be a very lively and lovely girl, but her parents were a little violent and beat and scolded her from time to time, because her parents believed in the saying "No fighting, no talent". Yes, that girl was forced to go to graduate school by her parents, and she was in her mid-twenties, which is also a good age to get married. The daughter who has always been clever has chosen a murderer instead of the person her parents found for her! ! This surprised everyone. Do you know why? It was because the girl's parents used violence against her when she was young that her psychology began to change. Everyone asked her, why did an open graduate student eventually become a murderer? The girl said, because he won't hit me. What a shocking answer, because the murderer didn't hit the girl, and because of the violence she suffered when she was young, the girl chose the murderer to marry.
This incident shocked many people and even puzzled them. Parents always regret hitting their daughter, but it's all over. When they were young, they didn't raise a talented and successful daughter. Now that everything has settled, it is useless to regret and be sad.
We can see how much influence family education has on children from this incident. This can be seen. Please don't neglect children's childhood education. Sometimes the education at this time may guide her life. Please pay attention!
Characteristics and methods of family education with many children Composition 2 I don't know when it started, and I dare not look into my mother's eyes. Probably at the thanksgiving meeting on parenting education held by the school that year. That was the first time I looked into my mother's eyes so seriously. My mother's eyes are big and small. Big, of course, because it is beautiful, bright and small, but it is because my mother's eyes can only hold me and my father. Mom's eyes are really beautiful, but they are vicissitudes because of the changes of years, and their eyes are full of blood. It was from then on that I dared not look my mother in the eye seriously! Come to think of it, I am still a coward. I dare not look into my mother's eyes because I dare not accept the fact that my mother is old.
My mother is beautiful, but my father is very old. Standing with my mother has caught up with two generations. Some curious people even came to me and asked, "Is this your grandfather?" I never answer this question, just smile and shake my head. In fact, in my heart, I always felt that my father was not worthy of my mother, and that my mother was a flower inserted in cow dung, but my mother always said to me, "Flowers need the nourishment of cow dung to survive."
Ever since I read the article "Every child is the seed of the Millennium Lotus", I can't forget this article, which tells the story of three disciples, Ben, Jing and An, planting lotus flowers. Among them, Ben was so anxious that he planted lotus flowers in winter and died. Jing was too careful to plant the lotus in a golden flowerpot, so as not to let them see the wind and rain, so he killed the lotus. Only Ann planted the lotus naturally. After reading this, I even had a dream. In my dream, I also became a seed of the Millennium Lotus, and my parents became Ann. They planted me in a place where the first ray of sunshine can shine every morning. Under the careful care of my parents, my lotus finally bloomed. The first thing I saw when I opened my eyes was my mother's kind eyes. My mother's eyes are bright, beautiful, bright and beautiful, full of love for me.
From that day on, I was no longer afraid of my mother's eyes. Yes! People can't refuse love.
Characteristics and Methods of Family Education with Many Children Composition 3 In 2000, Dr. Huang Quanyu's "Quality Education in America":< caused an uproar in major domestic media. In his book, he discusses the length of education in China from many aspects, and points out the misunderstanding of schools and families in the process of education in today's society. Children are like seeds, which need good soil, climate, scientific irrigation, fertilization and care to germinate, take root, blossom and bear fruit. Parents and teachers should create a suitable environment, cultivate children's autonomy and creativity, absorb the essence of 5,000 years of culture and throw away their burdens.
This passage left a deep impression on me. I think this doctor studying in the United States has sent us a very clear message: China's parents have collectively failed in educating their children, and China people have also failed in education as a whole. Universal education is a long-term project, and the whole society has the responsibility. We should also realize that teachers are not omniscient encyclopedias, and parents are not omnipotent computers. In the process of educating children, you can give up unchangeable experience and exchange opinions or arguments on an equal footing.
Think about it, which parent didn't prepare a new schoolbag for their children before they went to school? Which parent didn't prepare energetic clothes for their children and pinned their hopes on their success and success? What kind of seeds did they plant for their children? Do they give children the courage to pursue the future? Do they give children a clear understanding of the future? After children go to school, how to provide them with useful help and guidance instead of continuing to fuel the current vicious education?
These are our biggest worries. The social environment and the whole educational environment are not satisfactory, and relatively free families and free education are needed to make up for this deficiency. Don't let our children in China become flowers in the greenhouse, giants in theory and dwarfs in action. We should arm ourselves with knowledge and adapt ourselves to the environment with ability.
The characteristics and methods of family education with many children have seen a story. A boy took his beloved dog and his father for a walk. The dog trampled a girl's small canal while running. The little girl unreasonably asked her father, a wealthy businessman, to buy the dog and kill it. The boy's father didn't choose whether to sell the dog instead of his son, but told the rich man that the owner of the dog was his son and it should be his son's decision.
I quite agree with this father's approach. He didn't impose his will on his son, but let him think independently, make his own choices and take charge of his own affairs.
It seems simple to do this, but I don't think it's simple. First of all, this is respect for children. Only when parents respect their children can they gain their respect and trust, thus laying a solid foundation for the communication between the two generations. But now many of my parents have arranged everything for their children, from food to clothes, even their thoughts and behaviors. Parents only ask their children to read good books and seldom care about their hearts. In this way, the gap between parents and children is getting bigger and bigger, and communication is becoming more and more difficult.
In fact, letting children choose for themselves can also help children understand their attitudes and ways of dealing with people. Just like telling this story at the beginning, after the rich businessman offered ten times the original price, the boy remained unmoved and resolutely refused to sell his dog, which showed the boy's virtue and integrity. If a boy wavers in front of money and exposes his weakness, his father can educate him.
In addition, doing so can cultivate children's ability to think independently. A person always has to face life by himself, and parents can't be their children's mentors all their lives. If children are dominated by their parents' thoughts for a long time and have no ability to think and live independently, they cannot survive in this highly competitive society, let alone make a difference.
Finally, it also cultivates children's sense of responsibility. Imagine, a person without a sense of responsibility, how to face reality and life?
Therefore, I think that in family education, parents should attach great importance to their children, respect their wishes and ask for their opinions.
Dear parents, you all love your children, so please create such an atmosphere so that children can grow up healthily in such a family education atmosphere!
Characteristics and methods of family education with many children Composition 5 Parents' love and discipline for their children is understandable, just as parents often say to us, "You are a piece of meat that fell from me. If I don't love you, who will love you! " However, don't let this love become a burden for children and a "cage" that fetters their freedom.
Recently, the growth diary circulating on the Internet has attracted much attention and even made a hot search list. Diary is a growing diary written by a parent named "Di Da" in Nanjing for his son who goes to primary school. I have written hundreds of articles in more than two years. Some of these diaries are records of my conversations with my son. Some are records of taking sons to participate in extracurricular activities; Some are reflections and essays on son's behavior and life. Obviously, this "Didi" is extremely concerned about his son, afraid of missing every bit of his growth, and insists on recording his words and deeds every day.
However, parents pay too much attention to their children, which will hinder their free growth. Parents' excessive concern will lead to children's excessive dependence on their parents, lack of independent ability and poor adaptability to things. As long as there are some slightly intractable problems, they will be at a loss immediately, waiting for their parents to solve them; However, parents' time with their children is always limited, and it is impossible to stay with her all the time. Once they leave their parents, they will run around like headless flies and don't know what to do. All these problems are caused by parents paying too much attention to their children. Why not give them some space to deal with their own affairs? This is growth. If parents reach out to help their children in everything, they deprive them of the right to grow up. Children will not grow up, they will be at a loss when they encounter problems in the future, and they may make bigger mistakes.
Dandelion will leave its mother when it grows up and float home with the wind; When a bird grows up, it will leave its nest and build its own home. One day, the little tree will leave the embrace of the big tree and meet the storm alone.
Caring and loving your children is a good thing. However, don't let this kind of care and love become an obstacle to children's progress. Don't let the child become a person who will never be weaned. You should wean him at the right time.