If you are an ordinary parent with no resources, no background and no good education, you don't know how to educate your children.

Then encourage him more, recognize him more, praise him more, reward him more, understand him more and support him more. ...

Don't force it.

Transfer your cognition, anxiety, fear, anger and grievances to your child, and don't absorb the energy of your child. This is a good love for your child.

As long as the child grows up at his own pace and his heart is alive, you don't have to worry too much. No matter how many difficulties and setbacks you encounter as an adult,

He can do it.

Life is not good, always worrying about it, beating children all day, belittling children and denying them.

Blindly trying to control children,

This may be counterproductive.

Because once the child's heart is frozen, it stays helpless, weak and helpless.

Lonely and helpless "childhood" ...

That child will lead a hard life as an adult.

If the child is an ordinary generation, then he will enjoy his knees;

If you are excellent, let him fly high.

Try to accept the life of children,

Just as children never ask their parents to do anything.

In fact, loving children is a state, not a simple random behavior.

So, how to convince children that they are loved?

Parents can try to say the following words often:

1. You are very important to me.

2. I am proud of you.

Thank you for appearing in my world.

I like being with you.

5. You changed my life.

6. I like every look of you.

Every time I feel sad, I feel much better when I think of you.

Looking at you will remind me of my childhood.

9. You are cute when you make mistakes.

10. Mom supports you to do what you like.

1 1. Don't always compare with others and become what you want to be.

12. If you are unhappy, look back. Mom will always support you.