First, communicate with children more.
Create more opportunities to communicate with children. Rebellious children don't like too deliberate conversation, especially educational conversation. The fact is, you should integrate into the children's world, communicate with children in play and entertainment, communicate with children through things they are interested in, and use these things to integrate your thoughts.
Second, be more understanding and tolerant.
The more rebellious children are, the more they need their parents to give them more understanding. Parents' understanding and tolerance will create space for children's psychological growth, let children precipitate their emotional feelings to the greatest extent, and then better transform their behaviors and ways of doing things.
Third, parents learn to listen.
What some parents say to their children is perfunctory and selective. Gradually, children are unwilling to communicate with them. When communicating with children, parents should learn to listen and listen more. In addition to better understanding of children's thoughts, children can also feel the respect of their parents.
Fourth, provide a platform for children.
Another feature of adolescent children is the imbalance of cognition and life experience. If parents don't let go and give their children a chance to practice, their children will be even less confident. It is unwise to make decisions for children. Being a parent who can let go properly will accelerate the growth of children.
Five, don't make moral judgments.
For children's rebellious behavior, parents should not label their children as disobedient, unreasonable, emotional and weak-willed, but use a developmental perspective. In the communication with children, we should pay attention to lowering their moral judgment, and don't let them "go online" when they make mistakes or have some inappropriate actions.