1. What are the reasons why children like pranks?
When children are found to like practical jokes, parents should check whether it is because children are often busy with work, and they don't pay enough attention to their children or lack love.
Because some children often play practical jokes, not because they like it, but just to win the attention of their parents. When parents care and love their children enough, they won't have the heart to play pranks.
Therefore, when parents find this problem, they should spend more time observing their children's life and inner activities, find the source of their children's pranks, and then prescribe the right medicine.
2. Actively communicate with children and let them realize their mistakes.
When parents find their children playing pranks, they should actively communicate with them. As parents, in the process of communication, we must talk to our children with an equal attitude.
Never communicate with your child in a condescending manner, or try to suppress your child and forcibly reverse his behavior. Otherwise, it will not only fail to guide correctly, but will be counterproductive.
Because children are still young, they may have no concept of pranks, but they just think it's fun, but they don't realize that pranks will hurt others.
At this time, parents need to patiently guide their children and let them know that pranks are wrong. If you don't pay attention, it may lead to great disaster.
3. Carefully persuade children and regulate their behavior.
Speaking of which, it reminds me of a mother with two children (a man and a woman) when I was eating at a fast food restaurant one day. At that time, the mother went to pick up the meal, and the boy was naughty. He played a prank on his sister when his mother was away.
My sister was about to sit in the chair when she pulled it out. My sister immediately fell down and burst into tears. My mother came over as soon as she heard the noise. I thought the mother would definitely scold the boy or get beaten.
However, it didn't. Mother helped the girl up, wiped the tears from her face and calmed her down for a while.
Then, she squatted down to talk to the boy and said that it was okay, and her sister was fine. If she falls on another child, it will be a catastrophe. He also told the boy that it was wrong to do so. He might fall on his sister, or break his head, or somewhere else. Asked if the little boy realized that he had done something wrong, the little boy nodded regretfully.
Under the patient education of his mother, the boy not only realized the consequences of the prank, but also admitted his mistake. I have to say that this mother's educational methods are worth learning.
Parents should pay attention to this problem. At the same time, while educating children, we should also pay attention to their attitudes and language, so that children can realize the seriousness of practical jokes and then gradually make some changes.
In addition, parents should pay more attention to their children, understand their inner activities, find out the problems, and educate their children to regulate their behavior in time.