Children who are often punished are prone to lie, because sometimes they have to lie to escape punishment. In this way, children will become two-faced, one positive and the other negative. And once this bad habit is formed, it is difficult to correct it.
Children who are often punished tend to be withdrawn and depressed and gradually become hostile and aggressive.
This is not only a child's personality problem, but also a twisted and abnormal personality.
Improper punishment is easy to hurt children's body and mind, and sometimes children will resist in extreme ways, resulting in an irreparable sad ending.
But the educational method of punishment is not without its merits.
Appropriate punishment can have an immediate effect on correcting children's bad behavior. Can make children understand what they really can't do. And leave a deep memory.
It can effectively improve children's ability to resist setbacks and blows. Appropriate punishment can make children's personality less fragile and improve their adaptability to social complexity. Making it stand the blow of mistakes and setbacks is conducive to cultivating children's perseverance.
Therefore, in the process of educating students or children, first, pay attention to the exemplary role of teachers and parents in teaching children.
Second, insist on giving priority to encouragement and do a good job in patient and meticulous persuasion and education. Punishment education can only be used as an auxiliary means occasionally.
Although punishment education can not be ignored. But use it with caution. First, we should find out the psychological characteristics and personality characteristics of the object of punishment, and then punish it accordingly. Second, we should pay attention to the degree of punishment and not do great harm to the child's body and mind.
Third, if you are a teacher, you should also take care of your parents. If some parents can't stand their children standing for ten minutes and doing dozens of push-ups, they can only say warnings and deduct points. If it really doesn't work, they would rather persuade him to drop out of school than punish him easily, so as not to fall into the embarrassing situation of being complained and punished.
There are various educational methods, which cooperate with each other and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Punishment is also one of the ways of education, which should be used flexibly. In short, we should focus on the improvement of students' quality, and correct many people's educational concept here, that is, only pay high marks, which is very harmful to students.
Remember, all educational methods serve students' creativity, intelligence, mental health, physical and mental health and personality health, not their grades.