1, respect children, don't always stare at their weaknesses, and don't compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of other children. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

2, empathy Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, but it is not as obvious as children now, so in the face of children's inexplicable behavior, you may wish to empathize and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.

3, avoid communication with children from the beginning of learning, parents should not always enter the topic with academic performance, which will only make children feel pressure and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.

4. Stabilizing Emotions It is definitely irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to more resistance among children. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. After you calm down, you can communicate with your children.