For some families now, China has opened a second child, so some families also want a second child. But for the first child, when parents want a second child, most of the first children are very unhappy. The first child thinks that his favorite is divided up by the second child, which often leads to conflicts between the two children. There are two children at home, how to educate them correctly?

First, treat two children fairly. Most parents may prefer younger children. They think younger children are easy to be bullied, so when older children have conflicts with younger children, they usually only comfort the younger children and tell them to let the younger children go. But this is not right, it will hurt the older child's heart, and next time he may have a hatred attitude towards the younger child. When parents educate their two children, they should treat them fairly, whether in food, clothing, housing and transportation or in the process of handling things.

Second, teach two children to learn unity and friendship. Before the second child is born, you can actually teach the first child to learn to accept the second child slowly. The reason why the first child is unwilling to accept the second child is because the parents did not give the first child a clear sense of security. Most older children think that their mothers will not like themselves after giving birth to their children. As long as parents keep growing up, it still means that even if they have children, they will still like them and treat them fairly. Let children feel more secure, then children will naturally not quarrel with younger children.

Third, discipline in time.

If there is a conflict between older children and younger children, parents should ask clearly and know whose fault it is. Moreover, we should give some criticism and education to the wrong party, and we should not criticize and educate the children just because they are young, which is unhealthy for their growth.